What can I do to make myself look better?

Hey guys,

I'm looking for tips to make myself more attractive. Girls don't seem to be interested in me and i'm genuinely looking to improve. I'm not sure if the problem is my personality or looks.

Thank you I appreciate any help

Best Regards.

I find the style of the photos and the fact that you posted them on a public forum to be a little awkward (although this would be somewhat more acceptable on Reddit). So I'm inclined to say it's your personality/mindset that is holding you back

Well I thank you for the little advice I've never done this before so maybe that's why it is awkward my apologies

The only thing you are missing is a smile and confidence. You are actually quite handsome!

I don't see any pictures so I assume they've been removed. But in general, a person can appear attractive by playing up their features. IE, a haircut to play up their face, clothes that suit their build (presentable for your particular age), and confidence is key. Of course, people like all sorts of looks so it's up for debate whether "this style" or "that style" will make you more attractive. In the end, confidence is magnetic and people unconsciously steer clear of people who exhibit a lack of self-esteem

Well I thank you for the little advice I've never done this before so maybe that's why it is awkward my apologies

Smiles and confidence. Fake it til you make it

I always tell anyone asking this to start working out.

Whether it will improve your actually chances physically is rather irrelevant.

But after working out and getting in great shape my confidence was boosted a lot and that is more important.

I always tell anyone asking this to start working out.

 

Whether it will improve your actually chances physically is rather irrelevant.

 

But after working out and getting in great shape my confidence was boosted a lot and that is more important.

Read some study a while ago that showed people's self-esteem can be enhanced just by the fact that they start exercising (regardless of what progress is made). Scientifically endorsed advice

Aww I miss all the good stuff! Repost them! Lol :)

I guess the pictures were removed but here are some general tips to look better:

- Working out : it's good for the appearance of the body and to health and self confidence. Or a physical activity that you enjoy.

- Considering if your haircut fits your face well and get one that suits you well

- Clothes that fit well always do wonders. Getting clothes that suit your body well, you feel comfortable in and in an attractive style that you like is always a good move

- Smiling and being approachable. Having a positive energy.

- Having some interesting conversation topics under your belt and hobbies and interests. I know that this won't make you look physically better, but interesting people seem to look more attractive in the eyes of who's listening to them.

Are you looking for a d or a p? That's the real question here.

what do you look like now?

Smiles and confidence. Fake it til you make it

I can’t see your pics anymore but this is what I would say to anyone:

Beauty is an inside job. Start by doing things that add value, build confidence, and bring you joy.

Fake it tell you make it indeed! That philosophy transformed me from a super shy insecure messy human into a well groomed, mostly confident and positive one.