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    I am prattling on and have probably missed your point , which is your insecurities that run deep ? So him watching porn has triggered every insecurity you have ? ( I am also stoned and can't stop talking right now )

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    Uhhhh of course not.

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    Originally Posted by pippy longstocking
    I am prattling on and have probably missed your point , which is your insecurities that run deep ? So him watching porn has triggered every insecurity you have ? ( I am also stoned and can't stop talking right now )
    Put down the weed!

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    Or typing

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    Originally Posted by pippy longstocking
    I am prattling on and have probably missed your point , which is your insecurities that run deep ? So him watching porn has triggered every insecurity you have ? ( I am also stoned and can't stop talking right now )
    Yes pretty much it has triggered my insecurities

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    hahaha probably both ..


    rianblack can you talk about what they are , it might help to get some reassurance .

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    Originally Posted by pippy longstocking
    hahaha probably both ..


    rianblack can you talk about what they are , it might help to get some reassurance .
    Well I guess Iím not really comfortable in my own skin. But I think itís worse that I constantly compare myself to other girls. And Iím constantly thinking maybe that my boyfriend thinks another girl is more attractive

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    Have you considered therapy?

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    Originally Posted by Hollyj
    That's not healthy. Certainly, there are many women in your age group who have kids, who you can bond with. I would also think that it would be good for your kids.

    Make new friends.
    Have to agree with Holly here that it's not healthy to isolate yourself. If you had kids young, then you've had to mature faster than your age group. So you make mom friends who might be a bit older than you age wise, but maturity wise, you are all on the same page. Maybe peruse meetup.com if it's in your area and find some groups to join, things to do. You've got to make friends. If meetup is not in your area, then look around your community for child friendly events and activities and start going and be open to just making friends of any age. You've got to socialize.

    A huge part of insecurity could well be your fear that he'll leave you and you'll be alone and lonely. Your lack of social life is creating this hyper fixation and hyper reliance on your partner. The irony is that when you try to cling and control, you will end up losing the person. Don't do that to yourself.

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    Originally Posted by rianblack
    Well I guess Iím not really comfortable in my own skin. But I think itís worse that I constantly compare myself to other girls. And Iím constantly thinking maybe that my boyfriend thinks another girl is more attractive
    So we can see why the thought of him watching porn has made you feel like that and you are not alone , be reassured , that although most of are ok with porn, there are many women and men who come on here with the same insecurities .

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