EvaGina Posted March 20, 2007 Share Posted March 20, 2007 Hey guys I was wondering, does anyone else have a hard time looking into their partners eyes during sex? When Im not going to "finish" and I am prettymuch doing it for him, I have no problem with it... and he loves it... but he alwys looks away with his eyes screwed shut when he is about to cum. When I AM going to finish tho, I always turn my head away and have my eyes closed, just concentrating on how good it feels... when he is close to me and kissing me, I can look him in the eye and its fine... I ask becuase last night we were doing it *ahem* with my legs over his shoulders, it wasnt the most intimate position and he stops for a second, saying "look at me"... I tried, but I found it quite confrontational and kept looking away... werid... especially seeing as I always kiss him with my eyes open and things... I LOVE watching him, hes beautifull... I jsut dont like being watched I suppose Link to comment
This Little Lady Posted March 20, 2007 Share Posted March 20, 2007 True I agree that there are certain moments when you lock eyes and it is such an intense, beautiful moment. I think those are the ones where you are completely comfortable. But when *aheming* I have to admit it does seem a little uncomfortable to gaze. Link to comment
EvaGina Posted March 20, 2007 Author Share Posted March 20, 2007 lol I just realised... I didnt mean *anal* by *ahem*.... Yeah... the eye contact thing is really intimate, imo Im not sure I want to associate it with the more brutal sex sessions. Link to comment
Kitz Posted March 20, 2007 Share Posted March 20, 2007 haha, when i read the title of this thread i thought of the legs-over-the-shoulders position straight away.... one of the best and worst positions!! For me its like a guarenteed O but yeah, theres not really anywhere else you can look except for them...coz unless you're some incredibly flexible contortionist you can't really kiss them or anything and you dont have any choice except to just look at them and so that position is a bit, well, confrontational... lol... i don't really dig the idea of having someone staring straight into my orgasm face either, hahaha. It could have just been that position... do you have trouble looking him in the eyes usually?? Link to comment
EvaGina Posted March 20, 2007 Author Share Posted March 20, 2007 haha, when i read the title of this thread i thought of the legs-over-the-shoulders position straight away.... one of the best and worst positions!! For me its like a guarenteed O but yeah, theres not really anywhere else you can look except for them...coz unless you're some incredibly flexible contortionist you can't really kiss them or anything and you dont have any choice except to just look at them and so that position is a bit, well, confrontational... lol... i don't really dig the idea of having someone staring straight into my orgasm face either, hahaha. It could have just been that position... do you have trouble looking him in the eyes usually?? I always close my eyes when I ~O~ but no, I have no problem looking into his eyes... even when he is far away from me its normally ok... Imean (sorry about the tmi guys) he was just sitting inbetween my legs last night, sucking on my toes and looking straight into my eyes... and that was fine... I dno... I felt kinda bad becuase he does like to feel close to me during the act, but I cant concentrate on my ~O~ when I am looking at him... I cant concentrate on ANYTHING when I am looking at him! Link to comment
StarLily Posted March 20, 2007 Share Posted March 20, 2007 I love looking him in the eyes Link to comment
EvaGina Posted March 20, 2007 Author Share Posted March 20, 2007 I love looking him in the eyes are there any situations where it feels a bit forced or unnatural for you tho? Link to comment
Kitz Posted March 20, 2007 Share Posted March 20, 2007 I wouldnt be worried too much... I seriously dont know anyone who can stare right into their lovers eyes when they're having an O.. I know I definatley cant!! And it sounds like you don't have any other problem looking at him otherwise... If you feel bad about it.. maybe you should just tell him what you said just then... I felt kinda bad becuase he does like to feel close to me during the act, but I cant concentrate on my ~O~ when I am looking at him... I cant concentrate on ANYTHING when I am looking at him! i'd take that as a compliment. hehe. Link to comment
EvaGina Posted March 20, 2007 Author Share Posted March 20, 2007 LOL very good idea... (edit: I feel werid asking about this stuff... but sex has always been easy for me... sex is sex... this is so much more its like its all new again) Link to comment
StarLily Posted March 20, 2007 Share Posted March 20, 2007 are there any situations where it feels a bit forced or unnatural for you tho? noo. Not at all. At least not for me. When I asked him, he said he likes it too. Link to comment
StarLily Posted March 20, 2007 Share Posted March 20, 2007 Oh yeah legs over shoulders... We tried doing that. For some reason it was uncomfortable...I can't remember but I think it hurt.. and I was like "No I don't like that. Maybe next time". So maybe it's the position.. Link to comment
rocio Posted March 20, 2007 Share Posted March 20, 2007 when I'm concentrating, not only can I not look him in the eye but apparently I blink uncontrollably. I didn't realise this, but he felt the need to inform me. Link to comment
EvaGina Posted March 20, 2007 Author Share Posted March 20, 2007 StarLily: yeah, over hte shoulder can REALLY hurt if he goes to deep!! Amber.... BAHHHHHHHHHH HA HA thats so cute!! I twitch when I ~O~... and for AGES afterwards as well... its kinda embarrassing... I slapped him in the face when I came once... I went to go grab his shoulder and pull him so that he was still, but I had once of my twitches and just... slapped him... good thing he found it hilarious! Link to comment
StarLily Posted March 21, 2007 Share Posted March 21, 2007 StarLily: yeah, over hte shoulder can REALLY hurt if he goes to deep!! I don't think he entered far at all. I think he just went in a tiny bit and it hurt... Oh well maybe it's because I'm not used to sex yet... Link to comment
This Little Lady Posted March 21, 2007 Share Posted March 21, 2007 I was kind of wondering the same thing yesterday because I know that there are moments when it feel awkward to look them in the eye. Haha I was using *aheming* as an ~O~ in this instance (that sounds so funny) I do agree I think it was the position that makes it difficult for eye contact. When your closer, it feels a lot more comfortable and natural. Link to comment
spunkmaster Posted March 21, 2007 Share Posted March 21, 2007 I've found that it's nearly impossible to keep my eyes open during the ~O~. It takes away from the whole thing, and kinda ruins it or kills it or whatever. I totally agree with the position thing. Sometimes it just seems too weird to look him in the eye...can't really think of an *appropriate* example haha. But I really do like it when we look each other in the eye for a few seconds. Beyond that I feel like I'm staring/being stared at, which makes me nervous and kills the mood. Link to comment
sweetheart607 Posted March 21, 2007 Share Posted March 21, 2007 I twitch when I ~O~... and for AGES afterwards as well... its kinda embarrassing... I slapped him in the face when I came once... I went to go grab his shoulder and pull him so that he was still, but I had once of my twitches and just... slapped him... good thing he found it hilarious! Thank you eva for telling us that i twitch for ages after i ~O~... i thought i was weird and there was a head banging thing that happened to me once but you know u've found someone really good when you can do these embarrassing things and you can laugh about it. Link to comment
EvaGina Posted March 21, 2007 Author Share Posted March 21, 2007 Thank you eva for telling us that i twitch for ages after i ~O~... i thought i was weird and there was a head banging thing that happened to me once but you know u've found someone really good when you can do these embarrassing things and you can laugh about it. WICKED!! there is more than one~!!! I can stop myself from doing it, but it just doesnt feel as good!! and he doesnt want me to, anyways Link to comment
blondie5631 Posted May 12, 2007 Share Posted May 12, 2007 that position is the only one where its like awkward....sooo thats why whenever i know im guna want that position i always pull out the blindfold and put it on him ..its alotta fun and no awkward eye contact. Link to comment
Wounded Posted May 12, 2007 Share Posted May 12, 2007 I know that when my wife and I were having sex (been 7 weeks, she had a affair) and our relationship was stong, I enjoyed looking/locking eyes. It made it more than "just sex" it was more intimate, joining of two souls and not just two bodies of flesh. It makes it so much better IMO. I miss those days. Link to comment
JadedStar Posted May 12, 2007 Share Posted May 12, 2007 To be honest, i have the opposite issue. My husband keeps his eyes closed a lot more than i do during the entire 'act', and that freaks me out. I hate it. I have asked him about it before and he says he doesn't know why he does that, he is just into the moment and thinking of how good it feels. It drives me crazy, i like to look at him but when his eyes are closed it makes me feel funny..... Now that he knows i have an issue with it he opens them more, but it seemed weird to me that they are almost always closed. The sex is fabulous, but i do wish the eyes would stay open. LOL During an "O" itself, it would be very hard to keep them open i would think. Link to comment
zerohalo Posted May 13, 2007 Share Posted May 13, 2007 I never looked into my ex's eyes during an ~O~, and I rarely looked into them during the act. I had real issues with being able to do that... indicators that the relationship probably wasn't so hot to begin with. With my girlfriend however, it's a totally different story. I crave looking into her eyes during the act (mirrors are a blessing, aren't they?) and on a few occasions I not only managed to stare into her eyes during an ~O~, I hoarsely told her I loved her. Sex is so much better with someone you have a connection with. *dreamy sigh* Link to comment
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