Confuzzled...

[Shudder]

so i was just wondering, how many of you that are attached would go out on a solo date with a member of the opposite gender who you know has interest in you. by that i mean he/she specifically asked you out, or mentioned the word date when asking you out?

 

i ask this cause recently i went out with a girl and just asked for a second date in which she said yes to. now i find out she has facebook, and her status says she's in a relationship... one thing thats bothering me though is in the month span that i have hung out with her the boyfriend (if there is one) has never popped up.. she's not the most outgoing of all people...

 

any advice?

[renaissancewoman101]

Does she see you as a friend, or is she looking for more? I know she mentioned "date", but does her actions and reactions show that she might think of you in other ways like a friend or a date?

 

Maybe she is looking around for a "replacement" before she dumps her bf? There are people who dont want to leave one guy/girl without having someone else waiting in the wings.

[Shudder]

how does some one who's interested in you behave like?

[melrich]

No I would not. I would not go on a date with someone while I was attached to someone else whether they were interested or not.

[chaos]

Just ask her about it. Maybe she just hasn't updated the status on her facebook since she broke up. Or maybe she does it just to keep random guys from hitting on her. I've actually known quite a few women who do that.

[heloladies21]

Well she just might not have updated it from before, but in any case you have to react. Send her a msg on facebook mentioning the status line. Ask something like "So who's the lucky guy " and see what she says. If you get some BS back then something fishy goin on and she deserves to get called out on it.

[Shudder]

k i got my answer.. she has a bf but apparently never picked up the hint when i even mentioned the word 'date' when asking her out again.. thanks for the advice