Oral Sex: Men Have it Way Better!

[rthiaugpuf]

I'm not bisexual, but I have tasted both because I've tasted myself...(go ahead, cringe, think im gross, whatever, but I was curious as to what he was tasting down there, and when I told him I did, he tasted himself also ) anyway...I must say...I don't exactly like the taste of a man, but I don't mind it. As for myself, I was actally tempted to double-dip if you know what I mean, so as far as who has it easier, I'd say its a tie, he complains of sore neck sometimes, however, when it comes to taste, hands down, women taste better. and women can taste terrible some times, but thats a hygene problem.

[Day_Walker]

I dont believe that there is a male/female breakdown is appropriate in this section. I think that there are both men and women who are desensitized and they take longer with oral sex. I sure there are women who compose a beautiful sonnet on giving a man oral sex. Personally I feel that women have a far better reaction from oral sex and sex period as opposed to men. Men may finish every time but female orgasms seem much more involving and profound when compared to male orgasms.

[Baby Carrot]

There is a big disparity

 

Yeh, that's what everything comes to.

 

Men have it better in many many other aspects of life.

 

What to do?

[scarew]

I think we need a bisexuals opinion really, someone who's tasted both.

 

I've tasted both. Girls are way easier to swallow. But it doesn't make it easier or more pleasurable to go down on them. Oral sex is a two way table. You need er-input from the one your going down on. I feel more confident going down on a man because I know I'm good at it. I barely have a gag reflex. But I really think oral sex is what you make of it. If I had to think selfishly about what I prefer doing, yah, a woman is nicer to lick.

 

BTW, I'm VERY happy with my husband now. It's not men vs women for me, every person has a fair chance. And he wins.

[unface]

It takes women FAR longer to cum from oral than it does men (generally speaking)... and mens tongues get sore too...

 

That hasn't been my experience at all. Maybe I'm just that good... or maybe they've all been easy. Or maybe I've never had a proper blow job.

[Deviant_Kate]

1. The taste depends heavily on the woman's diet and whatnot. Sweet isn't the word I'd use. Generally my girlfriend's vaginal secretions are either tasteless or just a little salty. Nothing to complain about, but it's not chocolate. I hear that vegetarians taste pretty good, but I couldn't say from personal experience. I date carnivores.

2. Some women don't have multiple orgasms. Sometimes a girl needs a refractory period too. Sometimes the clitoris can become way too sensitive after one orgasm, and more stimulation can be really uncomfortable.

3. You're telling me you've NEVER had a tired or sore neck, jaw, or tongue from prolonged cunnilingus?

4. Oral doesn't stimulate the G-spot unless you have a Gene Simmons tongue. You'd have to add a hand or toy to the mix to get to the G-spot. Granted, it's still easier to get to the female g-spot than the male g-spot, for a couple of reasons, but I'd say it's probably a relief to most women that they don't have to stick their finger in somebody's anus.

 

The one thing I can think of that cunnilingus has over fellatio is that nothing is poking you in the back of the throat. I have an unusually strong gag reflex, so it's pretty lucky that I like the ladies.

[pregnantkitty_1985]

69 blows!!!

 

^ there's a partial pun there, but 69 still sucks!!!

 

^I guess the pun is no longer partial.

 

Especially if the man's on top, because you can't breathe, you can't work the penis properly, and it hurts your neck and throat. Well, from my perspective anyway.

[Cardinal]

1) The taste definitely can vary. I am more concerned about evaluating taste, when it is at its best. And that is where I am thinking female juices may have an advantage 'on average'. You do have an excellent point that sweet may not be a good way to describe it. On average I'd have to say salty doesn't seem to describe women well either. I have yet to get a salty taste. Some bitterness perhaps, but not salty.

 

2) You are exactly right. The last girl I was with was like this. She was a lot like a male with control. When she wanted to explode, we both knew what to do and were pretty well in synch.

 

3) For me personally, it is a muscular workout much like any you would do in a gym....an endurance workout to be specific. If fatigue sets in I just stop moving the tongue muscle so much. Recovery is quick. It can be about as tiring as chewing gum if you want it to be. I have had a sore neck definitely. But that is easily corrected by changing the neck position. Any soreness is just a way of training the muscles involved. And I think pretty much any guy can train to the point that he can satisfy a woman in this regard barring physical abnormality on his part. The same may be said for a woman giving a blowjob perhaps too. So I concede no advantage either way here.

 

4) I'd give a massive sum of money if I had a tongue that could reach the gspot! And then I'd go into porn and make it back 10 fold. Seriously. As noted the male gspot is hard to get to and it is highly possible one or both partners will have no interest in going there! But by doing so you are leaving out an important possibility to include with fellatio. If you want to make a side by side comparison on where the gspot is located on each gender, the advantage clearly goes to the women receiving cunnilingus (as manual gspot stimulation is a normal part of oral sex on girls).

 

If she is game the proper stimulation using cunnilingus, manual gspot stimulation and anal stimulation is a deadly combo for orgasm in a woman. Woman is more likely to accept 2 or 3 of these modes of stimulation 'on average' I think. Since fewer men are open to anal stimulation and mspot stimulation, I am seeing a physical advantage to the guys giving here.

[Cardinal]

Another point for those who have not had the chance to enjoy porn.

 

I have.

 

And I have seen many videos where the male goes down on the female for long periods of times, giving her orgasms. I have never, not even once, noticed the man complain about taste or even make a face that looked like he didn't enjoy it.

 

I haven't seen a woman do that with precum either. They seem to be okay with it.

 

But what I do see is many women who are willing to swallow for the part. But very few of them can even pretend to make genuinely happy face and give a smile as it is done. Some can and love it but they are a very rare breed, even in porn! Almost all of them either cringe or worse. Some gag. Some throw up. You get the picture. So the downside potential may be higher for a man's taste too.

[bitbit]

It takes women FAR longer to cum from oral than it does men (generally speaking)... and mens tongues get sore too...

 

maybe you're not in tune to your partner's needs. it almost never takes me longer than 10 minutes to cum (several times)

 

Cardinal:

"I can also add a counterpoint in favor of giving blowjobs. Accessibility. I often wish it were easier to get in position for cunnilingus."

 

try having her scoot down to the end of the bed with her feet on the floor that way you can sit down and keep your neck upright.

 

also,

 

"3) Many men can give oral sex for a minimum of a half hour no problem. We don't even get tired. I'd say fewer women would give a constant blowjob for that long! More breaks and handwork are needed."

 

i've given my boyfriend head for an hour and half straight on several occasions ;-)

[Cardinal]

Especially if the man's on top, because you can't breathe, you can't work the penis properly, and it hurts your neck and throat. Well, from my perspective anyway.

 

I almost prefer man on top. Try having him standing with his feet off the bed. You full on your back on the bed. Also make sure he supports himself with his knees if you do it traditionally.

 

I am a big fan of 69 though. It offers the right kind of distraction. And you can play lots of games with 69.

[Cardinal]

maybe you're not in tune to your partner's needs. it almost never takes me longer than 10 minutes to cum (several times)

 

try having her scoot down to the end of the bed with her feet on the floor that way you can sit down and keep your neck upright.

 

also,

 

i've given my boyfriend head for an hour and half straight on several occasions ;-)

 

I appreciate the suggestion! For ease of setup and effectiveness, this is the solution I have learned to employ on the fly. Sometimes I wait a little while before getting in this position. It is such a turn on to scoot back off the bed and watch the anticipation and desire as she frantically moves herself into position (or as I pull her into position!). It is like we don't want to miss a beat but have to move. Done at the right time, switching positions like that can add momentum.

 

It also solves the awkward position of the arms and hands for manual internal work, gspot and simultaneous anal stimulation. If it isn't feasible to get on my knees, I use pillows to prop her up better. Or I start with my hands supporting her cheeks....I could get pretty far off topic talking about this...

 

also,

 

Your boyfriend is an incredibly lucky guy!

[redandblack]

This is such a subjective and contextual argument. I don't see why it's still going on. An objective, falsifiable thesis can never be formed in relation to preference.

[Cardinal]

Here is a response from Nina Hartley on her forum that I think did a very good job of explaining taste in an unbiased manner. One thing I took from it is that a sweet tasting male is exceedingly rare without pineapple!

 

I kind of like the taste description for women. It is so tough to describe what a woman tastes like but there may be some truth to what Nina is saying.

[lizziebee]

You two have me on the first point. Yes men can get just as tired. I wasn't considering that it takes women so much longer.

 

I just never hear men complain as jsx noted.

Cardinal, thanks again for this post. I must say that it is a 'job' for a reason and usually it turns into a sexual romp when he knows I am getting tired etc. Lucky for me (and him) that multiple orgasms have been bestowed upon me by the sex gods..LOL. He can get me off pretty quickly and then turns it into a orgasm bonanza! Honestly though, when he asks me how many orgasms I had afterwards, I can only stare at him and tell him that what with all the waves crashing and head spinning I really was not thinking about counting the orgasms!

[Deviant_Kate]

If you want to make a side by side comparison on where the gspot is located on each gender, the advantage clearly goes to the women receiving cunnilingus (as manual gspot stimulation is a normal part of oral sex on girls).

 

If she is game the proper stimulation using cunnilingus, manual gspot stimulation and anal stimulation is a deadly combo for orgasm in a woman.

 

Believe me, there's nothing you could tell me about cunnilingus that I don't already know. I've given and received it many a time.

[Cardinal]

Then I will have to hit you up for some advice and new tricks when I get a new partner!

[TiredMan]

I personally think women have it way better. Much less fluid involved on giving a guy oral (especially if they don't take the ejaculation in mouth) while the guy is all up in the fluids every single time.

[Lady Luck]

I'm pretty sure no one's tongue is long enough to reach the g-spot, unless they basically shove half of their head inside her.

 

Also, there isn't a big difference between the taste of a man and the taste of a woman. It depends on their hygiene and diet. The more coffee and fish they consume, the worse it will taste. The more juice and fruit they take in, the sweeter it will taste.

[lizziebee]

If I wanted PC I would be on a pseudo-political site.

Ok..Cardinal, Dog, here is the deal. I do everything in my sexy, naughty but honest way to get him to cum to me, inside me on me I don't care but you are right, the oral pleasure he gives me makes me want him inside me that much more! I did not mean to raise cane about the taste or the length of time or whatever I just wanted to know from men out there if you go down on a woman, bring her to multiple orgasms and then walk away...hard! Thank you and goodnight!

[TiredMan]

 

Also, there isn't a big difference between the taste of a man and the taste of a woman. It depends on their hygiene and diet. The more coffee and fish they consume, the worse it will taste. The more juice and fruit they take in, the sweeter it will taste.

 

Might be but you can't go down on a woman without getting all the juices in your face. On a guy, there can be minimal fluid involved. Women are luckier lol.

 

I haven't had coffee in 10 years and I dont eat fish. I do eat fruit so I guess I must be quiality taste lol.

[pregnantkitty_1985]

Might be but you can't go down on a woman without getting all the juices in your face. On a guy, there can be minimal fluid involved. Women are luckier lol.

 

I haven't had coffee in 10 years and I dont eat fish. I do eat fruit so I guess I must be quiality taste lol.

 

Some men love "all those juices" though, TiredMan! My man doesn't stop until his face is soaked in fluids. hehehe.

[pregnantkitty_1985]

I almost prefer man on top. Try having him standing with his feet off the bed. You full on your back on the bed. Also make sure he supports himself with his knees if you do it traditionally.

 

I am a big fan of 69 though. It offers the right kind of distraction. And you can play lots of games with 69.

 

Hmm, I do appreciate the tip and would like to try it, but I'm confused. I'm trying to figure out how that works, exactly.

 

What sort of games? Divulge, give us tips. It could come in handy when things get a bit boring.

[TiredMan]

Some men love "all those juices" though, TiredMan! My man doesn't stop until his face is soaked in fluids. hehehe.

 

I'm sure they do. But if you don't, then you can't avoid it. When doing oral on a guy, unless you take the ejaculation in your mouth, there is minimal fluid involvement. There is some of course but not to the extent of a woman's.

[Cardinal]

Very good point of how it can all be subjective, haha! My pea brain never considered that a man wouldn't want to be soaked in juices.