majord23 Posted August 26, 2006 Share Posted August 26, 2006 We often hear on these boards that once we have move on, our exes usually reappear in our lives....well, I have a story that is uncanny: I have been in NC with my ex since the end of April. Since then I have had a few short *ahem* 'flings' that were probably a result of me seeking someone to fill a void in my life - because I guess I wasn't truly happy being by myself. The last few days however, I have been feeling exceedingly happy. I've been enjoying life and enjoying being single. I only realised it when reflecting yesterday. Last night I texted a friend saying as much; the text said "I'm really good - FINALLY genuinely happy being single". We exchanged a few texts over the next 10 minutes, and then I receive a text (which I assumed was from my friend)....but it was from my ex. *Literally* 11 minutes after I had sent my friend a text saying how I was happy being single, she reappears. It was a 'nothing' text just asking how I was, and I replied in kind. But it's the timing of her contact that had my head spinning. I know that this is what sometimes happens, but it doesn't make it any less freaky Link to comment
DN Posted August 26, 2006 Share Posted August 26, 2006 Is it possible that your friend was able to let her know the contents of your text in some way? Link to comment
bluegal79 Posted August 26, 2006 Share Posted August 26, 2006 That is freaky! Did she dump you? Link to comment
majord23 Posted August 26, 2006 Author Share Posted August 26, 2006 Is it possible that your friend was able to let her know the contents of your text in some way? No way on God's green Earth DN. He doesn't know her but is aware of the story. I met him after the break-up. Link to comment
majord23 Posted August 26, 2006 Author Share Posted August 26, 2006 Did she dump you? Dump me???? NEVER!!!! (she *did* make the choice to terminate our relationship however ) Link to comment
bluegal79 Posted August 26, 2006 Share Posted August 26, 2006 Dump me???? NEVER!!!! (she *did* make the choice to terminate our relationship however ) Lol, I like your wording! Link to comment
kadvati79 Posted August 26, 2006 Share Posted August 26, 2006 Joyce had a similar experience. I found my ex sniffing back when I started meeting guys, with words like "You would tell me if you were dating someone right???".... lol.... Link to comment
Spawn Posted August 26, 2006 Share Posted August 26, 2006 perhaps she had amnesia for that period. Link to comment
joyce1412 Posted August 27, 2006 Share Posted August 27, 2006 Joyce had a similar experience. I found my ex sniffing back when I started meeting guys, with words like "You would tell me if you were dating someone right???".... lol.... damn right i did. not my current ex, but 9 months after a guy screwed me and i was finally happy, in a new relationship, and rarely thinking of him...tada! he appears, with sorries and declarations of love. if only i had known from the beginning that when it came down to it, not only would I have HIM in the palm of my hand, but i wouldn't even care to be with him by the time i did, i think i might have saved myself from a lot of wasted hours of sadness. the current ex situation is not chalking up to be quite this simple, however... Link to comment
joyce1412 Posted August 27, 2006 Share Posted August 27, 2006 oh, but yeah, a few months ago i was having a wonderfully indifferent day and the current ex sent me an email. only begging for my FRIENDSHIP, however. Link to comment
vesper Posted August 30, 2006 Share Posted August 30, 2006 I think you are spot on!! It does always happen the minute we stop thinking , they just all of a sudden appear?? HUH? Link to comment
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