iamteddybearfeelmecuddle Posted July 20, 2006 Share Posted July 20, 2006 I would never call her house--for what? to say--oh is my b/f there...thats low lol Anyway--i am trying not to get nervous--but the fact that he called me only 15 minutes ago and then cant pick up when i call him back really makes me worried.. Honestly--i think white lies are common and lies to sometimes avoid jealousy are common..and i have caught him in a lie months and months ago--it was to avoid jealousy i'm sure...but this is just something that i have never heard of before..going to your g'mas to fix her phone this late..i dont know what to think right now. At this point, I wouldn't sweat it too much if I were you. Could be he got home and called you before he went to sleep, now he's sawing logs...Or maybe he jumped in the shower....who knows?...Just see what's up tomorrow. Link to comment
melrich Posted July 20, 2006 Share Posted July 20, 2006 Look, at the end of the day, who knows, something shady may be going on. But from what we've been told I think that is not the first conclusion that should be jumped to. How far does he live from his Gran's place? Link to comment
randiandriien Posted July 20, 2006 Share Posted July 20, 2006 My grandma used to stay up until like midnight or 1am. She got up at like 11am!! Go Maw Maw! I'm sure he was really just going to fix her phone. If he's busy during the day, maybe he'll go whenever because that's his grandma and he wants to get it done for her. Have you ever suspected him before this? Link to comment
melrich Posted July 20, 2006 Share Posted July 20, 2006 MJMJ has gone off-line! I hope she comes back and tells us what happened!! Link to comment
saltwatergirl Posted July 20, 2006 Share Posted July 20, 2006 Let's dont get carried away amongst ourselves here. You asked for a poll of the audience. It's about half/half that it is odd behavior vs. doable behavior, but we all seem to be in agreement that you leave it alone for now. Somehow, I don't think you'll take that and let it rest there. I get the feeling you want to find something. Remember, if you go looking for something, you will surely find it. Salt Link to comment
saltwatergirl Posted July 20, 2006 Share Posted July 20, 2006 MJMJ has gone off-line! I hope she comes back and tells us what happened!! What!?! I hate it when people do that!!!! I'm all caught up in this now and I wanna know where he's at!! Salt Link to comment
randiandriien Posted July 20, 2006 Share Posted July 20, 2006 What!?! I hate it when people do that!!!! I'm all caught up in this now and I wanna know where he's at!! Salt Maybe it's the phone call or alert we're waiting to hear!! Link to comment
MJMJ Posted July 20, 2006 Author Share Posted July 20, 2006 I never understood that saying--so if i am looking to see if he lying about this situation, i will find it? If there is nothing to hide--i wouldnt find anything. I am thinking of calling him in another 15 minutes Link to comment
iamteddybearfeelmecuddle Posted July 20, 2006 Share Posted July 20, 2006 Let us know what happens next, MJMJ. Don't worry we'll wedgie Melrich if he picks on you too much. Link to comment
melrich Posted July 20, 2006 Share Posted July 20, 2006 Don't worry we'll wedgie Melrich if he picks on you too much. I'm not picking!! Call him now, for God's sake. There are about 10 people hanging on the outcome here. Link to comment
iamteddybearfeelmecuddle Posted July 20, 2006 Share Posted July 20, 2006 I never understood that saying--so if i am looking to see if he lying about this situation, i will find it? If there is nothing to hide--i wouldnt find anything. I think that expression could be tempered by advice not to go through life with blinders on... Link to comment
friscodj Posted July 20, 2006 Share Posted July 20, 2006 That's what I asked in the first post but OP says it is just her suspicious nature! And that's why I said she was being insanely paranoid! :shocked!: Link to comment
MJMJ Posted July 20, 2006 Author Share Posted July 20, 2006 I have been good with controlling myself from getting too worked up over this--but if he doesnt answer the next time i call i know i will freak out, its a little weird if he doesnt pick up again right? obviously he isn't going to be having a huge convo with his grandmother at 12:30 am Glad i have people here giving honest feedback though =) Link to comment
iamteddybearfeelmecuddle Posted July 20, 2006 Share Posted July 20, 2006 Yeah, Maybe call him once more, but then not again, OK? Why should you do ALL the work? Either he's asleep, or he's doing something shady, which calling him will not stop, K? Link to comment
friscodj Posted July 20, 2006 Share Posted July 20, 2006 You asked for a poll of the audience. It's about half/half that it is odd behavior vs. doable behavior, but we all seem to be in agreement that you leave it alone for now. Yeah, but which half of the audience has been lied to, hurt before, and justifying the basis of this situation in that vs. real signs of dishonesty? Link to comment
melrich Posted July 20, 2006 Share Posted July 20, 2006 obviously he isn't going to be having a huge convo with his grandmother at 12:30 am Isn't he supposed to be over there fixing her phone? Where is he? Home or at Gran's? Link to comment
iamteddybearfeelmecuddle Posted July 20, 2006 Share Posted July 20, 2006 Come on now. I've got an invalid (sp?) gma, but even when I'm visiting her I'm still fully able to push the "Answer" button on my cell phone. Hell, at this point she doesn't know if she's talking to a person or a figment anymore, anyway....A "Huge Convo???" With his G-Ma?? What are they talking about that can't take a break? Come ON! I'm just saying.... Link to comment
saltwatergirl Posted July 20, 2006 Share Posted July 20, 2006 Yeah, but which half of the audience has been lied to, hurt before, and justifying the basis of this situation in that vs. real signs of dishonesty? Oh shutup. LOL Now, have you called? Where is he? Looking for something and finding it means: You will find "things" which you will contort to fit that which you are seeking. Kind of like we are doing right now, LOL. and I agree what kind of BIG CONVO is he having at midnite with grandma!!! That's crap! Salt Link to comment
friscodj Posted July 20, 2006 Share Posted July 20, 2006 Oh shutup. Thank you for validating my point! Link to comment
saltwatergirl Posted July 20, 2006 Share Posted July 20, 2006 Isn't he supposed to be over there fixing her phone? Where is he? Home or at Gran's? I think that meant having a convo in person at her house whilst fixing her phone. Salt Link to comment
melrich Posted July 20, 2006 Share Posted July 20, 2006 I think that meant having a convo in person at her house whilst fixing her phone. Oh right. This is very confusing. I think Imay lay it out on a storybook. Just so I have all the times, people and locations right. I hope she comes back and tells us what happened. i want bragging rights! Link to comment
iamteddybearfeelmecuddle Posted July 20, 2006 Share Posted July 20, 2006 Thank you for validating my point! Yeah, I didn't get your point either, frisco. Link to comment
MJMJ Posted July 20, 2006 Author Share Posted July 20, 2006 ok guys--well here goes.. when i called him originally at 10:30--he said he was about to call his grandmother and he was busy with garbage--not regular garbage but heavy duty things--like car parts etc. I called him again just now--and he said he couldn't answer orginally b/c he was unloading things but then he forgot to call back..he says he did call his g-ma and she said it was too late and that his brother showed up at his house--so they went to his shop to unload the garbage--b/c the regular garbage won't take this stuff. So he says that is where he is now. A little bit more believable? Link to comment
iamteddybearfeelmecuddle Posted July 20, 2006 Share Posted July 20, 2006 Oh right. This is very confusing. I think Imay lay it out on a storybook. Just so I have all the times, people and locations right. I hope she comes back and tells us what happened. i want bragging rights! Perhaps you could just draw us all up some spreadsheets and corresponding pie charts... Link to comment
iamteddybearfeelmecuddle Posted July 20, 2006 Share Posted July 20, 2006 MJMJ, yes, I'd go ahead and believe him. Don't sweat it. Go to sleep. Link to comment
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