ilovepoemsalot Posted June 20, 2006 Share Posted June 20, 2006 Ever wonder how it would be if you weren't born, if you didn't exist in this world (just thoughts by the way, no real action)? Link to comment
Beyondthesea Posted June 20, 2006 Share Posted June 20, 2006 Yes, then all the times I've influenced people and helped them through would never have existed. I would never have experienced beauty, love, nature and happiness. Sounds pretty bad! Link to comment
Süsser Tod Posted June 20, 2006 Share Posted June 20, 2006 In the big picture, entire world? Pretty much the same. Smaller picture, from people that actually know me, quite different. Link to comment
Dako Posted June 20, 2006 Share Posted June 20, 2006 No, but now that you mention it, nothing would be different, because there would be nothing to be different from. Link to comment
ilovepoemsalot Posted June 20, 2006 Author Share Posted June 20, 2006 I guess in a way it would be better cuz then I would know I would not have to suffer dying alone without ever being in a relation, not even dating not kissing. Link to comment
Beyondthesea Posted June 20, 2006 Share Posted June 20, 2006 You're only 19 years old, you have a lot of life to live yet. Why do you think you won't ever have a relationship? Link to comment
Süsser Tod Posted June 20, 2006 Share Posted June 20, 2006 I guess in a way it would be better cuz then I would know I would not have to suffer dying alone without ever being in a relation, not even dating not kissing. Hmmm, I had my first kiss at 23, wait, the time will come. Link to comment
ilovepoemsalot Posted June 20, 2006 Author Share Posted June 20, 2006 You're only 19 years old, you have a lot of life to live yet. Why do you think you won't ever have a relationship? Yes, I know I'm young but I would not like the idea of being 24 or 28 and still being single and no kiss nor dating. Reasons why I won't ever be in a relation: 1) I'm ruled by shyness, always had been, always will be around guys 2) I'm 6ft "1/4" and it doesn't seem to attract any guy at all, I hate it, I would do anything if there was any way I can become smaller 3) I'm nto much of a party person, don't like parties that much (too manu loud people) Link to comment
ilovepoemsalot Posted June 20, 2006 Author Share Posted June 20, 2006 Hmmm, I had my first kiss at 23, wait, the time will come. Yea, I guess I can wait, if I turn 28 and still no relation, then it's time to freak out. Link to comment
Süsser Tod Posted June 20, 2006 Share Posted June 20, 2006 2) I'm 6ft "1/4" and it doesn't seem to attract any guy at all, I hate it, I would do anything if there was any way I can become smaller 3) I'm nto much of a party person, don't like parties that much (too manu loud people) jejeje, then it will take time! As I was told in here a long time ago, I need a "nice boring girl" as I'm a "nice boring guy". Problem is, it took me quite a bit of time to find her, as nice boring girl does not usually goes out, so... Stop trying to find a date that is like the usual guy that goes to parties and all that, it won't work. Look more into people like you. Link to comment
neva_black_n_white Posted June 20, 2006 Share Posted June 20, 2006 The wise words of Dako take my breath away *big smile* I was almost going to answer, but the philosophy there was beautiful. I second that comment Neva x Link to comment
Beyondthesea Posted June 20, 2006 Share Posted June 20, 2006 You don't need to go to parties to meet people. Why aren't you involved with something you enjoy...hmmm...like....poems You should join a writing class, be in a study group, or do something hiliarious like dance lessons! I know you say you're shy, but being shy has nothing to do with not doing things that you would find fun Link to comment
FoxLocke Posted June 20, 2006 Share Posted June 20, 2006 I couldn't imagine not existing. It is to extensive to comprehend! Link to comment
Proactive Paradigm Posted June 20, 2006 Share Posted June 20, 2006 I wouldn't be hurting inside or hurting others. I'd gladly take it. Link to comment
Daddy Bear Posted June 20, 2006 Share Posted June 20, 2006 the Dodgers wouldn't have won the '88 World Series. i had to wear my boxers inside out for a month to make that happen. even worse, five cool kids would also not have been born. Link to comment
neva_black_n_white Posted June 20, 2006 Share Posted June 20, 2006 chuckles x if i wasnt born... does that mean my twin would be a singular or ... not born either??? that could be wounding.. hmmm x curious Link to comment
brando Posted June 21, 2006 Share Posted June 21, 2006 unless you are talking about being shown like in Its A Wonderful Life then it is irrelevant. Link to comment
AwdreeHpburn Posted June 21, 2006 Share Posted June 21, 2006 The wise words of Dako take my breath away *big smile* I was almost going to answer, but the philosophy there was beautiful. I second that comment Neva x I 3rd it....exactly how Neva 2nd -ed it. So Dako's motion carries. And Brando's It's a Wonderful Life comment too..... Link to comment
Spugly Fuglet Posted June 21, 2006 Share Posted June 21, 2006 I had an Elder brother who died at barth, I often wonder what life would have been like if he had lived. Link to comment
TheRedQueen Posted June 21, 2006 Share Posted June 21, 2006 Yes I do wonder, and sadly enough, I don't think the world would be that different. It's like removing a quark from an atom in a molecule of dust. An imperceptible difference. Link to comment
AntiLove_SuperStar Posted June 21, 2006 Share Posted June 21, 2006 If I hadn't existed, my mom would have been very sad as she had three severely wrong/lost pregnancies before me. I think that makes sense. Link to comment
Haven Posted June 22, 2006 Share Posted June 22, 2006 I think my soul mate was never born. Kidding. Sort of. Seriously, think of how many people were never born. Like, if my parents had never met, then probably they would have married other people, and had other kids. But since I'm here today, then those other kids never got to exist. Freaky. But if my parents had met, and I wasn't born, they probably still would've had a daughter, and probably would have named her the same thing. So there would be a girl in this world, with my name and maybe my face, but completely different. Link to comment
Spugly Fuglet Posted June 22, 2006 Share Posted June 22, 2006 I think my soul mate was never born. Kidding. Sort of. Seriously, think of how many people were never born. Like, if my parents had never met, then probably they would have married other people, and had other kids. But since I'm here today, then those other kids never got to exist. Freaky. But if my parents had met, and I wasn't born, they probably still would've had a daughter, and probably would have named her the same thing. So there would be a girl in this world, with my name and maybe my face, but completely different. bet your wrong, there out there right now thinking "where is she shes late" Link to comment
brando Posted June 23, 2006 Share Posted June 23, 2006 Yes I do wonder, and sadly enough, I don't think the world would be that different. It's like removing a quark from an atom in a molecule of dust. An imperceptible difference. Wow..do you really believe this???? Link to comment
NKP Posted June 23, 2006 Share Posted June 23, 2006 Well i think if i was never born alot of people would behappy and im sure my dad wouldnt of killed himself in 2001. My friends would be alot happier, my brother would be alot happier. Sometimes i do want to kill myself so bad but i get so close to doing it then i think of my brother he wont be able to handle another person in his family killing themself hes only 14 and has put up with so much with me being depressed, so really i wish i was never born Link to comment
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