Insomniac Posted July 30, 2003 Share Posted July 30, 2003 *****This subjects just interests me alot. I want to be able to do every little/big thing possible for my bf, to bring him pleasure. So..what are some turn ons that guys like? What are some specific ways you like to be touched/kissed..and how? And also, what are some really great hand job techniques that we girls can use. What should we NOT do and what SHOULD we do??I appreciate any feedback!!Thanks! Link to comment
Insomniac Posted July 30, 2003 Author Share Posted July 30, 2003 *****Hm...well, while i'm awaiting answers, I'll let the guys know some specific turn ons for the women... 1. Ears!!!!!!Lick, suck, nibble..whatever. And not just the outer rim, go behind, and inside too. This is will make any girl shiver. 2. Tongue. Girls like their tongues sucked too! 3. Lips. Suck and nibble the bottom lip, it feels awesome. 4. Legs. I love it when my guy rubs my legs, paying special attention to the thighs and calves. 5. Neck. Suck, lick, kiss....ahhh.... 6. Try kissing the palm of your girl's hand..I don't know why, but for some reason this is just really sweet to me. 7. Stomach. I really like it when my boyfriend kisses it, i'm so ticklish, it feels great. 8. Don't forget to play with a girl's hair. It's like getting a head massage. Ever wonder why girls always play with eachother's hair? That's why! 9. It really turns me on when my guy rubs against me (aka: humps, grinds..) 10. Just touch her, be gentle/soft when appropriate. *****Ok...now give ME some advice!! Link to comment
fst twitch Posted July 30, 2003 Share Posted July 30, 2003 1,2 and 5 are big on my list. Don't forget, it's all about the penis. If you could only touch a guy w/a ten foot pole, just make sure it's on his "johnson" and he'll be happy. Almost forgot, a little ass play can never hurt either. Good luck. Link to comment
Insomniac Posted July 30, 2003 Author Share Posted July 30, 2003 *****Ass play? really? Hm.....hehe..I'll have to try that, I never really thought about that one... Link to comment
zxcvb16226 Posted July 30, 2003 Share Posted July 30, 2003 use plenty of lubricant!!!! Link to comment
gumballz Posted August 2, 2003 Share Posted August 2, 2003 its a sad fact that a lot of guys like oral sex to the exclusion of all else. But if you are ging to give your guy oral dont go halfway and finish by hand. Also a fun thing is to randomly 'attack' him. Pick a time/place and just aggressively yank his pants off and do something. Also try inviting him to just watch you masturbate. Link to comment
Ash Posted August 7, 2003 Share Posted August 7, 2003 Don't do anything that has the slightest chance of hurting or startling him unless you make sure first! I really get off on seeing my girlfriend climax. So for me, feedback on how to help me get her there is a great turn on. Talking about it, what you like and have never tried but would like to. I want to hear her fantasies, see her wear sexy clothes etc. Link to comment
mjfff2003 Posted August 17, 2003 Share Posted August 17, 2003 I love seeing lovely selnder blondes wearing it. I also love the feel of fur. it's great to be stroked with fur round the genitals before a BJ. It doesn't have to be real fur, you can use fake fur. The feeling is great though Link to comment
christiansexsurvey Posted August 18, 2003 Share Posted August 18, 2003 Well, lingerie is always a turn on for me. Maybe dance and strip for him. My wife won't even think about oral sex, but giving and receiving is a big turn on for me too. Also let him touch you... one of my fantasies is to bring my wife to orgasm by touching her... she's not into that though. Sorry, all I can tell you are my turn ons. And whip cream can be fun. Link to comment
artoferos Posted August 31, 2003 Share Posted August 31, 2003 Here is my list Art of Seduction Art of Self-pleasuring Art of Foreplay Art of Fantasy Art of Erotic Sex ARt of Anal Sex Art of Orgasm Read about them you will find your choices in all or any of them. Link to comment
BigB77 Posted September 7, 2003 Share Posted September 7, 2003 Lube him real good and squeeze firmly when beating him off.. Also, reach for his balls while you are having sex. That almost always makes me cum when my girl plays with them during sex. Also, just kinda tapping on that back hole feels really good while doing it but some guys may not like the surprise so creep there and kinda guage a reaction from him and definitely move slow enough and be obvious about it so that if he doesnt want you to do that he can stop you or say stop. And dont take it personally, I think there are plenty who like it and plenty who dont. Good luck Link to comment
SeriousLegend Posted September 9, 2003 Share Posted September 9, 2003 I'm 21 years old and one of my bigest turnon is ears when the girl is licking my ear hmmm i get so so i have to say it ---horny but for me it's not just sex it's romance there is two type of girls-- one is sex and the orher romance,love for example i love to take girl out and hug her kiss her and making love not just sex ((: i like this better than sex but most of the guys you see today and girls they all think about sex sex sex hmm no romance but what can i say -----bye all Link to comment
littlehim Posted September 30, 2003 Share Posted September 30, 2003 Followings tips are working really great on me so it might help (18yo guy, gf and I are together for about 2 yrs)... As Fst Twitch told everything is about penis. As long as you touch it, suck it, bite it (don't go too hard with this) or whatever with "the general" everything is great. Some others guys body part may be really interesting for him.. and probably for you... Try to blow or lick softly around your bf toes... it's freezing =) As u mentionned for girls, ears and tongue are really nice too... Also one of the best feeling ever is when my gf play with my hairs just over my neck... if she could do this for hours that would be even better *or maybe equal* to sex !!! Surprise is really turning me on... Do it somewhere special... maybe in restaurant bathroom or just disapear for 15 min in a family dinner... Try to awake your bf with a blowjob... my GF did this once... only one hing to say WOW!!!! If you are open about that you might try a threesome (with 2 girls 1 guys... of course *lol*)... never tried but if my gf offer me to i'll be the happiest man ever... Active girl is also really turning on... when u two making love dont stay on bed doing nothing... innovate, try new positions, new stuff... guys usually are shy to ask their gf to try new stuff or anything... If you offer your bf to do new stuff he'll 99.999% of the time accept. Sex toy may also be interesting... as erotic writting.. this really turn me on.. some man also like porn movie but no everyone (i don't like it) So... if you do everything i said here your bf will be the happiest on earth... =) have great sex and ENJOY... BTW thank you for turn on tips for girls. A devoted guy. Link to comment
Ravenshadow Posted October 30, 2003 Share Posted October 30, 2003 personally my ears are really sensitive so his might be as well. I don't hold any complaints against my g/f for nibbling on my neck every now and then either. and of course the penis just about anything dealing with that will get a guy going, just don't squeeze hard or anything of that sort. Link to comment
ForAnother Posted November 25, 2003 Share Posted November 25, 2003 I like it whenever a girl takeds the initiative. I LOVE it when my gf just jumps ontop of me, forcing me to lie down. Then she strattles me on the bed, and starts kissing my chest and my neck, slowly making it to my lips.... also licking my shoulders to my neck... crazy. My ears, OMG my ears. The touching of the neck and my hair makes me fall asleep... it feels good to the touch, but not horny. Also when my girlfriend says she wants to have me right there, or if she says that she is horny... god... that is so unbelievable. Understand, guys like being told they are hot, STAY AWAY FROM CUTE... unless he did something funny. Act as the boy of the relationship, commanding is hot, but not too much, let him be in control of your body... but win him in verbal convos.. it evens the playing field. For another Link to comment
Derek Posted December 2, 2003 Share Posted December 2, 2003 There has been alot of physical suggestions... But I'd like to add something else, Guys like it when their egos are stroked, when they feel respected, when they are allowed to feel like "a man" once in a while. And when the encouragement comes from a woman it is all the more powerful. Nagging him into the ground is likely to be an unsuccessful venture. People are attracted to those that show their attraction and interest to them. (stroking ego again) Sadly that's why faking orgasms seems to be so popular a past time. Link to comment
AP Arianna Posted December 3, 2003 Share Posted December 3, 2003 Wow! Derek is soo right! I My boyfriend likes it so much when I let him know that I need him. Every time he can do somerthing for me to make me feel safe and protected, that's a really big turn on for him. Link to comment
Opiumman Posted December 4, 2003 Share Posted December 4, 2003 Personally I like(lots of guys like) to be roughed up a bit. I mean the girl slamming me on the cough etc and rough kissing. TALKING DIRTY is a big turn on(i.e telling me what she is going to do to me, talking sexy,etc) on a handjob you just want to have a FIRM grip and jack it off straight up and down and at a fast pace. Link to comment
taria Posted December 9, 2003 Share Posted December 9, 2003 my bf has a odd thing it really turns him on when i kiss his sholder blades it gets him rock hard and he cant leave me alone o and also sucking fingers Link to comment
Jboi Posted December 10, 2003 Share Posted December 10, 2003 personally, I like it when if we are just sitting my eachother for her to stick her hand in my shirt and gently stroke my nipple. It feels good Link to comment
Gem Posted June 10, 2004 Share Posted June 10, 2004 My b/f loves it when I model bikinis for him. He really gets turned on when I wear a thong. Then he pulls me near him and we kiss and hug and stuff, and usually make out. Link to comment
laroxes Posted June 25, 2004 Share Posted June 25, 2004 I'd love to see her sit opposite me wearing a short skirt then separating her knees so that I could see all the way up to her smooth shaved love playpen & then watch her play with herself as she smiles knowingly at me. Link to comment
Marionette Posted June 27, 2004 Share Posted June 27, 2004 He loves it when i teas him and play with him, straddle him and whisper in his ear. Almost any guy will get off on things like "i want you inside me" and the like, just try it, it works, especially if you whisper it in their ear really closely and then run your lips lighty accross their cheek and then kiss them (hint hint) I find that it really drives him crazy if you dont let him touch you and then touch yourself where he wants to touch you...Oh, and i know that my boyfriend has really sensitive upper arms, like if you run your finger down them, but, that could be just him. those are my two cents. Link to comment
missunderstood Posted June 27, 2004 Share Posted June 27, 2004 school girl uniforms red plad white shirt Link to comment
Depressed186 Posted July 10, 2004 Share Posted July 10, 2004 dang on....yall got some really good, ideas....my man ant that kinky, ive seen porn really really kinky and ive always wanted a man that kinky... Link to comment
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