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gumballz

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  1. its unusual but it happened to a girl i know, she was giving one and the guy peed in her mouth. She said he was way more upset than she was and ran out. Sometimes intercourse make make a girl need to pee as well...its something bout the rubbing action in both cases that must sometimes make that happen. Obviously its pretty embarrassing for you and the girl but it was just an accident, sometimes embarrasing things happen during sex. Just make sure next time you hit the bathroom before anything starts.
  2. this is, lucky for you, a case where the guy does appear to have much respect for you and your body. If you truly feel the time is right to let him do more than kiss think thru the following: Do you think this guy will run and brag to his friends if you let him go further? Do you know in your mind exactly how far you ARE prepared to go and are you prepared to say no firmly when you hit that no-further point? Do you want to go further with him just because you are afraid he wont like you if you dont? if you answer all these questions honestly and those answers mean that your are comfortable going ahead then the answer is easy. Just take his hand and place it somewhere intimate, or if you are too shy for that just whisper 'we can do more than kiss if you want'. Thats all it will take for him to know.
  3. its a sad fact that a lot of guys like oral sex to the exclusion of all else. But if you are ging to give your guy oral dont go halfway and finish by hand. Also a fun thing is to randomly 'attack' him. Pick a time/place and just aggressively yank his pants off and do something. Also try inviting him to just watch you masturbate.
  4. first of all understand that masturbation is mostly all about friction, making skin slide back and forth over/on. Your clit is a small nub of flesh at the top of your vagina and it has a small 'hood' of skin covering it to protect it's extreme sensitivity. Pressing the tip of your finger on that hood and gently moving it back and forth causes the skin to rub on your clitoris underneath. Massaging the lips of your vagina can also cause the hood to slide back and forth stimulating your clitoris. The direction, firmness and speed of how you move your finger to get pleasure differs from person to person so just experiment until you find what works for you. Puttingyour finger inside your vagina and moving in and out can stimulate other nerve endings that will feel good although your clitoris is much more sensitive. The other super sensitive spot is the G-spot which is inside your vagina on the very top ceiling spot. It's best stimulated by putting you finger inside and reach up to the top until you can feel a little bump and then move your finger(s) in a curling motion away from you. The G-spot needs practice to get it right so the easiest way to start off is to massage your clitoris with your fingtertips.
  5. i think a girl having a normal batch of hair down there is just fine. I dont think a girl needs to shave it all or even trim unless he wants to for her own reasons. I have a girl friend who shaved it all because she thinks that it makes that area more senstitive when a guy is doing oral sex to her. I dont get loose hairs in my mouth when I'm going down on a girl who isnt shaved so thats not an issue. If you want to shave, do it because it does something for you not for the guy.
  6. if you've masterbated you know how much or how little of a mess you might make. Avoid getting on her clothes at ALL costs. Also you might suggest that you can do something for her while she's doing that for you and make sure she understands that she doesnt have to do anything sexually for you in order for you to keep liking her/going out with her. If she still wants to, lie back and enjoy and keep a paper towel handy.
  7. theres two sides to this one. Guys do enjoy it and even more so when he can see/tell that the girl enjoys it too. I do think that in one sense its kind of a test in that's its usually the first really intimate thing a girl will let a guy do and if she does it sends him a signal that things may progress farther. Sadly there are enough guys who will do it as a brag-to-my-buddy's achievement so you have to think very very seriously about how much you trust a guy before you let him be that intimate with you.
  8. I'm sorry to hear you got exploited like that. The scary part of this issue is that girls will sometimes think its fun to send pics like that without a guy even asking and yet they never know where and when those pics will show up. There is nothing a guy needs to see online BEFORE you meet him in person if you even want to take things that far.
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