Luke Skywalker Posted April 30, 2006 Share Posted April 30, 2006 Has anyone here every tried dating, or going out with two attractive ladies at the same time? Say two girls liked you - rather than rejecting one of them, would it be a good idea to go out with both of them, at the same time, assuming these girls are also friends with each other? Link to comment
Mrocza Posted April 30, 2006 Share Posted April 30, 2006 Unless you want to start a huge fight, break up a friendship and most likely end up single anyway.... No. Link to comment
Tigris Posted April 30, 2006 Share Posted April 30, 2006 I don't recommend it. You'll end up with neither! Link to comment
Luke Skywalker Posted April 30, 2006 Author Share Posted April 30, 2006 Then how come when I go out, I sometimes see guys hugging two attractive girls beside them, and say, woah, how do they do that? Link to comment
southerngirl Posted April 30, 2006 Share Posted April 30, 2006 They are probally friends and not dating or, one is their date and the other is the dates friend. Link to comment
Luke Skywalker Posted April 30, 2006 Author Share Posted April 30, 2006 They are probally friends and not dating or, one is their date and the other is the dates friend. There is another thread about a guy who has a girl who is interested in him, and wants to use her to get to a girl that he is interested in. So, one of them can be his friend, and the other can be his date then? Link to comment
spunkmaster Posted April 30, 2006 Share Posted April 30, 2006 I've dated more than one guy at once...we all didn't go out on the same date, if that's what you mean. But it ended horribly! And I felt guilty almost the entire time. And in the end, I ended up not dating any of them, because they were all looking for something more serious than what I was willing to commit to at the time, and knowing they weren't the only one I was seeing made them jealous I guess. Or maybe it just ticked them off. Either way, I wouldn't recommend it. Link to comment
Luke Skywalker Posted April 30, 2006 Author Share Posted April 30, 2006 I've dated more than one guy at once...we all didn't go out on the same date, if that's what you mean. . That's EXACTLY what I mean. If they both showed up on the same date with you, and you arranged it for the same time, then how would that work out, they would have to split the costs 50/50 for you, and themselves? Or they would both probably just get ticked off like crazy. I guess one really has to be a friend, and the other it has to be serious. Two serious people is a train wreck waiting to happen. Link to comment
spunkmaster Posted April 30, 2006 Share Posted April 30, 2006 Or they would both probably just get ticked off like crazy. I guess one really has to be a friend, and the other it has to be serious. Two serious people is a train wreck waiting to happen. Agreed. And that is a train wreck I do not want to witness! Girls are even more jealous than guys in my opinion. It would take a unique type of woman to be willing to go on a date with a guy AND another girl. Link to comment
hosswhispra Posted April 30, 2006 Share Posted April 30, 2006 Has anyone here every tried dating, or going out with two attractive ladies at the same time? Say two girls liked you - rather than rejecting one of them, would it be a good idea to go out with both of them, at the same time, assuming these girls are also friends with each other? Don't think there are a lot of females that would go for it. Have you been watching that new series, Big Love on HBO? Link to comment
itsallgrand Posted April 30, 2006 Share Posted April 30, 2006 The problem with this situation is that they are friends with each other. That's a bad choice of dates! lol. If you're interested in casually dating more than one girl, pick ones that don't know each other. And be upfront that you are a single guy still dating others. have fun! Link to comment
Andy223 Posted May 1, 2006 Share Posted May 1, 2006 i think thats a great idea... getting two girls to split the cost of the date for you. you can always say "hey want to double date? its gona cost you half price this time" The main problem is sleeping... i mean there arnt that many triple beds out there as far as i know. Link to comment
Sylph Posted May 1, 2006 Share Posted May 1, 2006 I think you're going to accept that you can't bang both Jane and Angela my friend. I mean it might work in porn movies but I don't think you're going to be that successful. Link to comment
Derge Posted May 1, 2006 Share Posted May 1, 2006 How did you ever think this was going to work. Link to comment
tylercdurden2004 Posted May 1, 2006 Share Posted May 1, 2006 Just remember to bring the jello or mud, whatever you prefer! Link to comment
Dating Coach Posted May 1, 2006 Share Posted May 1, 2006 If you're not exclusive and you are open and honest that you are "dating" others as well, then this is perfectly acceptable. You have to be open and honest though, because if the person finds out and they didn't know this is how it was between you, then they will be very upset. Link to comment
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