Karibo Posted April 22, 2006 Share Posted April 22, 2006 I recently had sex with a guy and we both seemed to be having a whale of a time and it lasted for about 2.5 hours! The only thing is, I was very loud in bed, but he was very quiet. Why do you think this is? Do you think he was just concentrating? Link to comment
DN Posted April 22, 2006 Share Posted April 22, 2006 Some people are more vocal than others - in either gender. Link to comment
itsallgrand Posted April 22, 2006 Share Posted April 22, 2006 lol. He might be concentrating. Hard to know without knowing him! Some people are quiet lovers. I'm very vocal and love talking, screaming, making all kinds of sounds. But some people just aren't like that. Are you ok with it if it turns out he's just a quiet love-maker? Link to comment
Bethany Posted April 22, 2006 Share Posted April 22, 2006 I don't think it matters, as long as what he is feeling is real. I'd rather that than a loud grunt and groaner who just does it for 'effect'. Link to comment
Jhodas Posted April 22, 2006 Share Posted April 22, 2006 Myself and my gf are relatively quiet lovers until just before the 'moment'. I become quite vocal just before I climax and she gets noisy just before hers. Other than that, it's lots of quiet eyecontact and the odd moan. Different strokes for different folks mate. Link to comment
annie24 Posted April 22, 2006 Share Posted April 22, 2006 I hope that this isn't the ex who has been jerking you around.... Link to comment
Keuro Posted April 23, 2006 Share Posted April 23, 2006 I've only had sex with 2 guys so far, my exbf and my actual bf. I was with my exbf for like 5 years so I kinda was used to his way of having sex, so when I started to have sex with my actual bf it felt different because he was so much more quiet than my exbf... but he'd occasionally say or ask things, it felt kinda awkward at the beggining but it was okay after a bit. Link to comment
Karibo Posted April 23, 2006 Author Share Posted April 23, 2006 No it wasn't with the ex thanks for your concern. Link to comment
Cardinal Posted May 15, 2006 Share Posted May 15, 2006 I masturbated for about 10 years consistently before having consistent sex. I needed to be quiet during that time. I also rarely vocalize (in sports or martial arts etc). I find it hard to be loud. In bed I am a bit more vocal than many men, but still extremely quiet compared to my girl. She will scream at the top of her lungs without reservation. If I tried, I couldn't heard over the moaning and screaming. It doesn't indicate anything about a man's level of arousal based on his vocalization during sex. Link to comment
monkey1 Posted May 16, 2006 Share Posted May 16, 2006 My neighbor, he pants and moans. This isn't something I wish I knew, but you can hear too much when your bedroom shares a wall with the house next to yours. I hate how SF houses touch. Grrr. Link to comment
AntiLove_SuperStar Posted May 16, 2006 Share Posted May 16, 2006 Not so long ago, my boyfriend (who is one of the least theatrical people you could meet, and teases me for melodramatic tendencies) went "OHHH MMMYYYYY GOOODDDDDD" loudly during sex, it was very amusing when he realised what he'd said. He has threatened to slap me if I ever tell anyone he knows. Haha. Link to comment
7CardStud Posted May 16, 2006 Share Posted May 16, 2006 Dane cook does a funny joke about this... He makes a refrence how we say stupid stuff in bed during sex... It's like our IQ drops or something and we cant make complete sentences. Just broken words that are like.... What? I dont make a lot of noise because I'm concentrating haha. Link to comment
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