inner (vaginal) lips!!!

[latina07]

i have the problem of having larger inner lips. i personally don't feel too confident when im naked or wide open but i do not show it at all, cause i know that if ur not confident then it ruins the sex. also cause i consider myself to be a very good lover and very creative so i feel i seem to make up for not being so pretty down there. (besides my body is ok) anyway!! i heard some guys like them and some don't. they're not hedious but they're not that nice looking either. GUYS!! how much does this bother you? (my bf loves to go down on me) i wonder if he minds them or not.? i will be checking this so please leave ur opinions.

[the yang to the worlds yin]

honey if your boyfriend doesn't mind, then don't worry, he cares for you just the way you are. if he says he loves it, then he probably does. and i think were all a little self conscious when it comes to that region of our body, it's natural. everyones the same but slightly different, and that difference is scary because were not sure how people will react to whatever difference we have. i mean i have a rather big behind for someone as tiny as me, but my boyfriend couldn't be any happier about it. now am i self conscious about it, yes.. but thats just us. and were our own worst critics anyways =P

[katie831]

i have been told that my 'down there' is beautiful cos it is all small and compact but to be honest i don't think anyone's bits are that good to look at, and if your creative etc he's not going to be thinking 'wow..her lips are a bit big' he's going to be thinking ' wow.. i love this woman she really is truly amazing!'

[RayKay]

Honey, don't worry about it! Unless they are large enough to actually be bothersome and get in the way, just be happy with what you have!

 

In my opinion if a guy decided not to be with you as your lips were a bit too big, he is not worth your time! I have NEVER met someone whom even cared about that honestly, and I have had some interesting conversations with guy friends. I am sure some do, but not the ones worth your time!

 

Someone posted a link here not that long ago all about vaginas and the differences between them...just like faces, they are very different from person to person! Do a search for it - it was pretty good.

[redhook]

I wouldn't worry about this. Everyone is different and that should in my opinion be appreciated. I had dated a girl that was bigger down there and the sex was just as good as others that were smaller down there.

[sidehop]

Honestly...and please don't take this personal but small or big, I don't think there's anything wrong. In fact I don't even hear guys talk about a bad 'private' area of a girl if it's ugly or too small, etc.

 

Of course it's different if the girl is dirty or does not keep herself clean down there & smell. Now that...we make fun of. Please keep yourself clean down there LOL.

 

Aside from that I wouldn't worry about it!

[latina07]

thanks a lot!!! i was really worried cause my friends are "the normal size" that most women have, so when one of them looks at me she has coment about it. so i thought my man had a problem with it too. like i said he has never said anything so i guess he's ok with it. it's not painfull and neither extremly large, but it is out there. and from what i found out in google it's about $4,000 to get it done, so that's out of the question. i guess i'll just try to keep my confidence at this level. (by the way, the fact that it's large makes me keep it super clean ; )

[Scout]

thanks a lot!!! i was really worried cause my friends are "the normal size" that most women have, so when one of them looks at me she has coment about it. so i thought my man had a problem with it too. like i said he has never said anything so i guess he's ok with it. it's not painfull and neither extremly large, but it is out there. and from what i found out in google it's about $4,000 to get it done, so that's out of the question. i guess i'll just try to keep my confidence at this level. (by the way, the fact that it's large makes me keep it super clean ; )

 

Wow, now you're going to have the interest of every guy on here thinking we girls make a practice of comparing our vaginas, lol. For the record, me and my friends don't!

 

Hon, please don't ever get plastic surgery on this. You run a real risk of losing permanent sensation down there. As you can see from the comments of the guys on this thread - and the fact your boyfriend has never said a word - THEY DON'T CARE ABOUT THIS STUFF. And I think it's shameful any plastic surgeon would even offer this kind of surgery. What will society try to dictate women should like next?? It's getting really out of control, this obsession with a so-called perfect body.

[latina07]

ur right!!! im crazy!!! i love sex and enjoy it to the fullest!! so let me stop thinking of this bs!! FOR THE RECORD WE DO NOT COMPARE!!! IT'S MY FRIEND THAT IS ALWAYS FINDING TO CRITISIZE ABOUT SOMEONE!!! THANKS A LOT EVERYONE.

[Mrocza]

Most guys honestly don't care. Every "pair" is different. While you may look down and not be content with what it looks like, your boyfriend may think it is beautiful.

 

Forget the crude jokes, the food-analogies, etc.

 

You are beautiful, regardless if they're large, small, symmetrical, uneven or pornstar-perfect. Frankly, there is nothing that is aesthetically perfect because humans vary too much to form a generalization.

 

You boyfriend hasn't said anything. And if you asked him he would probably say he loves every bit of you. Why don't you get used to and comfortable to the way you look.

 

I actually have a link to a website I saved from one of RayKay's threads wayyyyyyyy back.

 

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Really interesting.

[latina07]

Im New To This Place And I Was Wondering If There's A Chat Room For It. That Would Be Fun. If Yes How Do I Get There?

[Derek]

every flower is different, yet beautiful...

[orgasmictofu]

I talk to a lot of guys. And often times the topic is sex. Hey, I'm just that kind of girl

 

Never, not once, has the topic of vulva size come up with a guy. Seriously, I think once a guy has gone that far, he just doesn't give a crap about what your vulva looks like. Furthermore, the average guy hasn't seen/touched enough " * * * * *" (for lack of a better word at this point) for a decent sample to form an opinion on what's "normal" and what's not. And I use the term normal very loosely.

 

There is a website, link removed that has VERY useful information about the "average" woman and the ranges in size, depth, shape of vulvas. It does have some pictures, but they are presented in a textbook sort of way. So if you're sensitive to that sort of thing, you've been warned.

 

Save your 5 grand. You're perfect just the way you are

[Day_Walker]

For the majority of men I dont believe that having large labia minora is going to matter. There are some men out there that are going to care.

[latina07]

You Guys Have Given Me More Confidence Of Myself!! Thanks A Lot!!

[Keuro]

I am the same way, latina, I dont feel confortable at all when I'm with my boy, I always think that he thinks it's disgusting or something

[Jhodas]

I believe a woman's vagina is much like a woman as a whole. Beautiful, complex, mesmerising, confusing and most of all, unique. Cherish what you got. By the sound of it, you have quite a healthy relationship. Thus I am led to believe that if your man had a problem, he would find a way to broach it.

 

The only preference men tend to express towards that area of a woman is shaven or not. Other than that, i really don't think we mind.