for women: be strong, positive NC story

[Caterina]

So, when my ex broke up with me about a week ago, I literally felt as though there was no hope. My physiological symptoms were really difficult...I found that if I tried to put food in my mouth, my tongue would gag reflex. I couldn't sleep for many days even though my schedule demands that I wake up early. Well, I NCed it. He even contacted me on AIM and I immediately cut off any possibility to get into conversation. I took pride in the fact that I was strong, that I was willing to endure the pain. When going through a break-up, don't think about tomorrow. Just take each day at a time, each step at a time. Soon enough, I have gotten over him. I am on my way to being happy again. The good news is that you do get over them. Rain today, sunshine tomorrow. I am proud of how I handled the break-up. I went out, still lived my life (even though I wanted to stay home and sulk), worked hard at my job, and made sure I spent time with Lots of friends who love me.

[DN]

Good for you, keep it up. I think your story is also a positive story for men in a similar situation.

[okane24]

That's very encouraging. My ex broke with me 2 days ago and I AIMd her this morning. No response. I gotta be strong like you and hopefully it will get better like everyone says. Keep up the good work.

[Danny H]

Blimey one week, you are lucky, It has now been nearly four months and I still feel dreadful.

 

Dan

[Caterina]

I've noticed that when it comes to break ups, the emotions hit me fast and strong. Altho, it was a very short relationship...only about two and a half months.