Unknown123 Posted February 17, 2006 Share Posted February 17, 2006 So like, my girlfriend is currently a fair distance away from me, so we've been chatting via IMs and phone and the like. She wants to try cyber sex with me. I haven't done this much before (or recently), so if possible I'm looking for tips on how to best keep her interested and how to add variety - things like that. Thanks. Link to comment
ShySoul Posted February 17, 2006 Share Posted February 17, 2006 How old are you? Have you had sex before? Not trying to pry, just seeing if you are someone with "experience" or a teen who is unsure what to do. Cyber sex is essentially sex, through written words. Just as phone sex is through spoken words. The key is to be descriptive. Since you can't actually do the physcially acts, you need to be able to describe them and paint the picture, set the mood. Describe you actions in detail. Don't just say, I'm touching your breast. Say that you are taking them into your hands, feeling how soft and delicate they are. You caress them, running your fingers all over. Kiss them with your lips brushing against them, blowing softly. Lick them, your toungue running along her flesh. Squeeze them. Place one in your mouth.... Um... you should get the picture. Being descriptive, taking your time (don't rush to the main event, have foreplay), and getting over the nervousness to lose yourself in the experience are the best tips I can think of. Don't worry, you'll probably be a natural once you get started. Link to comment
Boricua7 Posted February 17, 2006 Share Posted February 17, 2006 Don't just say, I'm touching your breast. Say that you are taking them into your hands, feeling how soft and delicate they are. You caress them, running your fingers all over. Kiss them with your lips brushing against them, blowing softly. Lick them, your toungue running along her flesh. Squeeze them. Place one in your mouth.... Someone's had experience... ...Anyway, I agree with ShySoul. Although I have never had sex via internet (I think it's kind of weird but that's just me), just like real sex the most important thing is to lose yourself in it and take your time so that pleasure is had by both parties. Why don't you try phone sex? I mean, it's a little more personal than just seeing letters come onto your screen. Link to comment
Unknown123 Posted February 18, 2006 Author Share Posted February 18, 2006 I'm 26, and yes, I've had sex. That post was helpful, thanks. Any other advice/examples? Link to comment
ShySoul Posted February 18, 2006 Share Posted February 18, 2006 Someone's had experience... Or I've watched too many romance movies and read too many romance novels. I remember reading a funny article on how not to have cyber sex. Wish I had saved it. Think about what you did when you had sex and act like your doing it to her. Important thing is to let yourself go and enjoy the experience. And phone is better, hearing a person's voice can really heat things up a notch. Link to comment
Boricua7 Posted February 18, 2006 Share Posted February 18, 2006 Sorry for the assumption. I didn't mean to offend/insult you in any way so I hope that you did not take it that way. Or I've watched too many romance movies and read too many romance novels. I remember reading a funny article on how not to have cyber sex. Wish I had saved it. ShySoul (as usual) continues to have good points. Just take what you physically did and verbalize it. That's it. Link to comment
Dregnought Posted February 18, 2006 Share Posted February 18, 2006 ahh... CSex (as i like to call it). Me and Moon Goddess have CSex all the time. The key is to be descriptive. as little distractions as possible. Given time, you will realise that you fall into a trance-like state. Thats when the best sex occurs. You will find out with pratice that you really are having sex, just rather then touching, your typing. (touching the keyboard...). If you got a webcam, masterbating and showing them that is also pretty powerful. Its a great feeling, for both sides. Link to comment
keenan Posted February 18, 2006 Share Posted February 18, 2006 Or I've watched too many romance movies and read too many romance novels. Awww. You read romance novels? That's kinda cute. Link to comment
ShySoul Posted February 18, 2006 Share Posted February 18, 2006 Boricua7 - No offense. I was making my usual silly comments. Maybe I have had cyber. Or phone. I'll let you decide on for yourself. keenan - Sorry to disappoint, don't read romance novels. But I don't mind a romantic movie. Link to comment
Dregnought Posted February 18, 2006 Share Posted February 18, 2006 What do you mean u dont like reading romantic novels? Me and MG's life is like our own little very odd novel. Its even got special features! Its written in real time, u read 1000 other peopls novels as well. And it is a very long novel indeed! The novel even speaks of itself!!! On a serious note, i forgot to mention that you want to start of small. Just kissing, taking of shirts and bra, caressing breasts and bodies. Start small, and work your way up. Otherwise, its only words. And yes, even Pro-Elite MG and I sometimes its only words, when we arent in the mood. Link to comment
musicguy Posted February 19, 2006 Share Posted February 19, 2006 Roleplay while having cyber sex..oh yeah and if you talk to her on the phone, phone sex is better Link to comment
Pixiemeat Posted February 27, 2006 Share Posted February 27, 2006 Talk about what you're doing to yourself, what you'd like to do to her, how you feel, incorporate dressing up or role play. It sounds very fun! Link to comment
ShySoul Posted February 28, 2006 Share Posted February 28, 2006 Ah yes. Roleplaying is an effective thing as well. For more info: Link to comment
aaspaas Posted June 26, 2006 Share Posted June 26, 2006 My boyfriend was involved in link removed for 2 years, and he finally gave up when we started going out together. I hate listening to the stories of how he used to cheat on the net, having hot chats etc.. Link to comment
yeawutever Posted June 26, 2006 Share Posted June 26, 2006 Try writing about what you did when you had sex, it's easier for experienced people than virgins!!!!! Link to comment
charlie-pc Posted July 13, 2009 Share Posted July 13, 2009 What do you mean u dont like reading romantic novels? Me and MG's life is like our own little very odd novel. Its even got special features! Its written in real time, u read 1000 other peopls novels as well. And it is a very long novel indeed! The novel even speaks of itself!!! On a serious note, i forgot to mention that you want to start of small. Just kissing, taking of shirts and bra, caressing breasts and bodies. Start small, and work your way up. Otherwise, its only words. And yes, even Pro-Elite MG and I sometimes its only words, when we arent in the mood. 1 I really think masterbating is the best fun,especially if you got a partner who understands how you feel.im 48 yrs old my girl is 27 and hot shes thai been married twice and shes coming around to accepting it and yes i have had heaps of women but love wanking .....cheers Link to comment
envysinnocence Posted July 13, 2009 Share Posted July 13, 2009 If your going to try cyber sex it might be easier if you write it in third person, like writing a story and it sounds better than first person when describing actions. First Person Example: I kiss you softly Third Person Example: He kisses her softly Pick which ever one would make you more comfortable and sound better for you. Link to comment
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