FamousAmos Posted January 26, 2006 Share Posted January 26, 2006 on so today when i came home from school, i heard some terribly news from my mother. she told me that we were bankrupted and we had to move out of the house ASAP. i have 3 choices where i can move to, live with my grandma which is 30 minutes away from my school, so she can drive me to school so i can be with my buddies, or i can live in a city with my dad which is 1 hour away, which means im gonna have to attend a new middle school, or i can live with my mother in her new apartment at the beach, which means im gonna live 7 hours away from my original spot and meet new friends. i dont know where to go... i mean i wanna stay close to my friends till we graduate i wanna live near a beach so i can learn to surf, and this area has one of the nations top football teams, (i plan on getting a scholarship from football to college) so yeah Link to comment
FamousAmos Posted January 26, 2006 Author Share Posted January 26, 2006 oh yea, i have this HUGE Crush on this girl that lives in my neighborhood, so if things go bad with her and me, im moving near the beach i guess Link to comment
sweetheart230 Posted January 26, 2006 Share Posted January 26, 2006 Well, that's not exactly a good reason to leave. You should probably base your decision on where you would be happiest and who you want to live with. Link to comment
Relationship Coach Posted January 26, 2006 Share Posted January 26, 2006 Go with your mother to give her emotional support. Did she indicate to you that she didn't want you to move with her? Link to comment
FamousAmos Posted January 26, 2006 Author Share Posted January 26, 2006 nah im pressured, all 3 of them are like telling me they want me to liev with them Link to comment
Shadows Light Posted January 26, 2006 Share Posted January 26, 2006 Go with mom. A mother needs her kids around her. Grandma raised her kids. Dad loves you I"m sure.. keep up a good relationship with dad. But go with mom. It sounds like a great opportunity for you to learn new things, meet new people. And help mom cope... being bankrupted is upsetting to her. She needs you right now. Link to comment
FamousAmos Posted January 26, 2006 Author Share Posted January 26, 2006 opps i forgot to add, my step dad's aprtment and my mom is moving in with him, but hes such a MONSTER, if he ever touches me again, im gonna tackle him down, and beat his face in with a bat Link to comment
Relationship Coach Posted January 26, 2006 Share Posted January 26, 2006 Haven't you been living with your step dad for quiet some time now? If you feel he is abusing you, stay with someone else. There is a big difference between abuse and being disciplined. Defending yourself is one thing, resorting to violence is another. Use a bat on him and go to jail for attempted murder with a weapon. I know you can be a hot head at times, get yourself under control and think like a man. Your mom needs you to be helpful and not to cause additional problems. Link to comment
DN Posted January 26, 2006 Share Posted January 26, 2006 If your stepDad is abusing you, go with your Dad - he might like some time with you as well. Link to comment
good_charlotte_freak2 Posted January 27, 2006 Share Posted January 27, 2006 Hmmm...well...I dunno. The * * * * * girl reason isn't a huge reason, but the moving away part is. so I dunno. What do you think? Link to comment
annie24 Posted January 27, 2006 Share Posted January 27, 2006 I agree, maybe it may be better to go with your dad, if your step-dad is hitting you. Link to comment
FamousAmos Posted January 27, 2006 Author Share Posted January 27, 2006 lmao he doesnt abuse me its just, i dont like him. if he tries to act like my real father imma beat his * * * Link to comment
FamousAmos Posted January 27, 2006 Author Share Posted January 27, 2006 im gonna go with my grandma thanks for your advice..leaving my friends wouild be too hard Link to comment
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