1love2k5 Posted January 4, 2006 Share Posted January 4, 2006 i think that this may be my MOST embarrassING post that i'll probably will ever be able to post because you guys might feel like you want to throw up after you actually read this post. well...here goes: one day, my ex wanted to get laid with me so bad that he just had to have it. i mean, this dude was seriously desperate for some. well...i wasn't really "bout it bout it" (into it because i had RED WINGS) well...for some of you who don't know what RED WINGS are, it's another way of saying that a chick has her menstrual cycle. well...i didn't feel like doing anything because i'm not the type of chick that gets laid while on her cycle, well...it happened and there was freakin' blood everywhere! i mean, there was so much blood that you can give some of that blood to a needy person at a blood drive! ew gross! i told this jerk that i've never done this before and it grossed me out that i had to experience that with him twice. disgusting! i was so pissed at him for the rest of the night that i didn't feel like talking ti hom for the remainder of the night. of coarse we had to wash off the nasty blood off of us. he had blood all over his hands and penis. i had blood all over body and the majority of the bed. i wanted to die or either throw up because of the fact that i had experienced this disgusting idea of his. i told him that he can at least wait a few more days until it completely goes off. i also wanted to slap the crap out of him because of that. has this embarrassing thins ever happened to anyone out here on enotalone? how did it feel afterward? disgusting? awkward? sick to your stomach? you tell me. why is it that people actually enjoy this embarrassing and disgucting stuff? Link to comment
newts Posted January 4, 2006 Share Posted January 4, 2006 I feel the same way as you. If somebody wanted sex so much and couldn't wait until after lol my redwings they could go and jump off a cliff. It is very personal lol having your redwings and you don't need somebody intruding, poking, prodding and probing. Tell him to get a new girlfriend or you just wont see him for 4-7 days of the month. Link to comment
pizzachick13 Posted January 4, 2006 Share Posted January 4, 2006 I have had sex while I've had my period and it's much better to do it in the shower, mainly as there's no mess in the bed. I didn't feel as gross cos of that but I can understand how gross it would be. Seeing that much blood is never a pretty sight. Tell your ex to get a new gf, or to go jump next time. Link to comment
BellaDonna Posted January 4, 2006 Share Posted January 4, 2006 The shower is the way to go to avoid a mess. A lot of women also do not realize that there is a product available called "Instead" You can use it when you have your period- it fits in the body exactly like a diaphram- and you don't even know it's there. I think it's the best invention ever- it's been around since 1996- I've used it ever since. It makes life so much easier- sex, the beach, exercising- there's no more worries. However, if you do not want to have sex at all during your period- then just don't do it. BellaDonna Link to comment
darkblue Posted January 4, 2006 Share Posted January 4, 2006 However, if you do not want to have sex at all during your period- then just don't do it. Exactly. Some women are comfortable with it - and even say that it feels good. And some women feel self-conscious and think it is horrible. You have the choice whether or not to have sex. Link to comment
RayKay Posted January 4, 2006 Share Posted January 4, 2006 Sex on your period can feel very good, if you can get past the mess factor. Not only are many women more orgasmic, an actual orgasm can reduce cramping tremendously. Some men are grossed out by it, some not bothered at all, and the same goes for many females. It's not "disgusting" - mentrual blood is pretty clean, as long as you take precautions (obviously if you are HIV positive etc risk of transmission is higher, and you need to wash up after, but it's not bad for you). There are many ways to reduce mess - have sex on lighter days of your period, or in the shower, or as suggested above using Instead cup, or a diaphragm/cervical cup can also reduce mess, or lay down a towel. But I am confused...if you did not want to do it, why didn't you just say you didn't want to? Link to comment
LiquidCherry Posted January 4, 2006 Share Posted January 4, 2006 FYI: "Red Wings" is NOT another way of saying a female has her period.. It goes a little bit beyond that... So to share my vast knowledge of gross slang here goes nothing. Everyone knows what a milk mustache is and now that you have that image in your head think really hard about how a guy can get his "red wings". Okay, stop thinking about it now. Yuck! Link to comment
1love2k5 Posted January 5, 2006 Author Share Posted January 5, 2006 The shower is the way to go to avoid a mess. A lot of women also do not realize that there is a product available called "Instead" You can use it when you have your period- it fits in the body exactly like a diaphram- and you don't even know it's there. I think it's the best invention ever- it's been around since 1996- I've used it ever since. It makes life so much easier- sex, the beach, exercising- there's no more worries. However, if you do not want to have sex at all during your period- then just don't do it. BellaDonna thanks belladonna! Link to comment
1love2k5 Posted January 5, 2006 Author Share Posted January 5, 2006 quote] yeah, i did tell him i hated and think it was disgusting. i've never done this before, and never want to do it again. he's just sick, that's all. Link to comment
1love2k5 Posted January 5, 2006 Author Share Posted January 5, 2006 FYI: "Red Wings" is NOT another way of saying a female has her period.. It goes a little bit beyond that... So to share my vast knowledge of gross slang here goes nothing. Everyone knows what a milk mustache is and now that you have that image in your head think really hard about how a guy can get his "red wings". Okay, stop thinking about it now. Yuck! ok hon, how do you know? how long has it been since you've had yours? i think i had mines probably before you were even a teenager. i was just 9 years old when i had my first menstrual cycle. i think i know what i'm talking about ok. Link to comment
1love2k5 Posted January 5, 2006 Author Share Posted January 5, 2006 FYI: "Red Wings" is NOT another way of saying a female has her period.. It goes a little bit beyond that... So to share my vast knowledge of gross slang here goes nothing. Everyone knows what a milk mustache is and now that you have that image in your head think really hard about how a guy can get his "red wings". Okay, stop thinking about it now. Yuck! thanks for your url liquid. your profile is cool! Link to comment
LiquidCherry Posted January 5, 2006 Share Posted January 5, 2006 ok hon, how do you know? how long has it been since you've had yours? i think i had mines probably before you were even a teenager. i was just 9 years old when i had my first menstrual cycle. i think i know what i'm talking about ok. I totally wasn't aware that I am incorrect simply because you entered puberty before I did! What on Earth was I thinking?! I have some interesting friends and so that's how I know. (They're probably a bad influence, don't ya think?) If ya feel like it check out these links: ^^^^^^^^^Don't worry, texy only!^^^^^^^^^^ Link to comment
LiquidCherry Posted January 5, 2006 Share Posted January 5, 2006 And BTW, your post didn't make me feel like throwing up, not in the least. Having sex while on your period isn't for everyong and it sounds like it's not for you. I don't mind doing it but my boyfriend does and so we don't... To me it's just not embarrassing. It seems like maybe you were pressured into doing this and if that's true could it be why this is so upsetting to you? Link to comment
Day_Walker Posted January 5, 2006 Share Posted January 5, 2006 According to my experience. Red Wings means that when a man has oral sex with a female while she is on her period and its supposed to produce somewhat of a image of Red Wings on his face. It could be a regional thing but thats what I understood Red Wings to be. Sex while a female is on her period is enjoyed by some and hated by others it all depends on the person and its a matter of taste. If you didnt enjoy it then dont do it. Link to comment
cal_014 Posted January 6, 2006 Share Posted January 6, 2006 the wings mean what guys have "achieved" in there sexual life: Red Wings - Having sex with a girl on her period Brown Wings - Around the back Gold Wings - Having sex with someone older than you Platinum Wings - Having sex with someone twice your age Correct me if im wrong please Link to comment
LiquidCherry Posted January 6, 2006 Share Posted January 6, 2006 If ya feel like it check out these links: ^^^^^^^^^Don't worry, texy only!^^^^^^^^^^ The above are links to some.. alternative dictionaries. I checked out Urban Dictionary for the definitions cause I didn't know about the other three. Here's what I learned: Red Wings: oral sex with a female on her period Brown Wings: anal sex with a female Gold Wings: a golden shower Silver Wings: sex with an older person And yes, "Wings" is a term of achievement. Link to comment
Süsser Tod Posted January 7, 2006 Share Posted January 7, 2006 Well, a great alternative is anal sex. Tampon on the vagina and you can enjoy the backdoor. Link to comment
BellaDonna Posted January 7, 2006 Share Posted January 7, 2006 Or a man can simply WAIT until your period is over. It doesn't last that long.... BellaDonna Link to comment
ShySoul Posted January 7, 2006 Share Posted January 7, 2006 And here I thought Red Wings was the hocky team in Detroit... I'll agree with Belladonna on this one. Wait until the period is over. If she's not comfortable, don't be doing it. Guys, we can wait a few days. Link to comment
vegas_midnight Posted January 8, 2006 Share Posted January 8, 2006 I used to not mind having sex on my period, but one time it was just really gross. I had blood all over my back from his hands. I haven't done it since. Link to comment
TheWriter1 Posted January 10, 2006 Share Posted January 10, 2006 i've fingered a girl while she was on her period before...it was a mistake because she got a little too far into the moment and i guess forgot? Uh...the odor was a bit different than her normal one...i just couldn't do it on someone's period Link to comment
1love2k5 Posted January 12, 2006 Author Share Posted January 12, 2006 hey vegas, i don't blame you at all. Link to comment
1love2k5 Posted January 12, 2006 Author Share Posted January 12, 2006 the writer, i don't blame you at all. one time, this chick (a real freaky one) "ate me out" on my cycle just 3 years ago. it was disgusting, but she loved it. can you spell D-I-S-G-U-S-T-I-N-G?! Link to comment
RayKay Posted January 12, 2006 Share Posted January 12, 2006 the writer, i don't blame you at all. one time, this chick (a real freaky one) "ate me out" on my cycle just 3 years ago. it was disgusting, but she loved it. can you spell D-I-S-G-U-S-T-I-N-G?! Um.....if it was disgusting to you, why did you go along with it? I don't get that???? Link to comment
ShySoul Posted January 12, 2006 Share Posted January 12, 2006 Um.....if it was disgusting to you, why did you go along with it? I don't get that???? To please the other person? To experiment and try something new? Maybe the thought was that it wouldn't be as disgusting as she was thinking it would be and that she'd never know for sure unless she tried. Or maybe she wasn't thinking it'd be disgusting but didn't enjoy it as she thought she would. Link to comment
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