Simple question for both sexes...

[Blue Skittles]

Turn On: Funny, Intelligent, and Caring

 

Turn Off: Too much drinking, arrogance

[millaj]

i'm bi so i'll answer from both ends.

 

i can't stand it when either doesn't know what they want.

[ducky]

Turn-on's: Intelligence, loyalty, sincerity, maturity, chemistry, and of course beauty

 

Turn-off's: Immaturity, Shallowness of thought, Promiscuity

[frustrated101]

TURN ON: when the man makes me laugh is a really good thing, positive attitude and wants something for himself, trustworthy and treats me like I should be treated.

 

NEGATIVES: has a bad demeanor towards people and life.

[sharkbait]

Turn-on: Easy to talk to and nice eyes to look at while talking to her

 

Turn-off: All talk and no listening.

[Lambchop]

On jokes, enthusiastic and giving lover, dark glittering eyes and last but not least a brain.

Off body smell (doesn't have to be bad - just not 'for me'), unclipped toenails, flirts with other women in front of me, immature lover, intellectually shallow.

[ysitsohard]

Turn off: Someone who makes every little thing a big deal. just chill!

Turn On: Someone who simles. Not like always walking around all day but generly happy.

[randy]

ditsy oh my god ditsy girls are just such a turn off (i.e. Jessica Simpson ).

 

Turn On : Ditsy girls ( god . . . i don't know why )

Turn Off : Girls that think they're better than everyone else .

[combat_barbie]

Turn On: Up front about what they want, active, tall, funny, fun, outgoing, confident, open-minded

 

Turn Off: Overweight, lazy, uptight, needy, desperate, whiny, controlling, cries very easily (Cry if your mom died not cus I'm wearing a skirt thats too short so you think guys will check out my legs)

[Indigo]

Turn Ons lives up to his word -- says what he does and does what he says, enough brains and vocabulary to have an intellectual conversation with (and isn't afraid to try and teach me something / challenge my views)

 

Turn Offs guys who spew bs to impress, have a smaller vocabulary than my dog, and classify girls as nothing more than a pretty object

 

Basically ignorance versus depth...