Older girl

[mysteryman]

Hello,

One day in class a friend of mine pulled out a picture of me, she was joking with me because it was a horrible picture of me. And she said she was going to give it to her friend. Not knowing her friend I asked "why" and she replied "because she thinks your cute." I had seen a picture of the girl before and thought about how attractive she is. Anyhow back to the story my friend asked me if "I thought her friend was pretty" and of course I said "yes." That was the end of it there all though it baffled me to how her friend even knew of me. Because she's in the high school and I'm in the middle school. A few days later I got my friend to reveal how her friend knew of me and it was because she had seen me in class once and that when I escorted my friend in a beauty pagaent that she had seen me there.

 

Anyhow I waited a few more days and thought why not so I added her on ICQ. I didnt reveal what I knew I actually pretended like I had no idea that she knew me. And it went real well, we had a great time chatting and she even told me that I crack her up. Even saying that when ever I get a craving for this one restaurant to tell her and we'll go together. So I was feeling pretty good til school the next day. My friend found out about it from the girl. And she wasn't very happy about it. Saying "I cant believe you added her" all this and that but this is where it gets interesting my friend told me that her friend told her that she may haftoo hook us up. (me and the girl). And my friend was ticted so she told her that she shouldn't date me and to date older guys.

 

 

Anyhow shortly after I took a week off from talking to her deleting her off my list because she was ignoring me and she got a bf. Turns out she was sick and not on icq but she did have a bf. I apolagized for what I did and soon after they broke up. I think me and hers close? but im not sure. She flirts with me a little bit, and talk atleast every other day. So Im thinking about asking her if she'd like to do something sometime? But there is an age gap Im 14 soon to be 15 and she's 15 soon to be 16 and 2 grades higher than me. So I dont know? They do say love is blind to age but I just dont know? thanks for reading.

 

Sincerly

Mysteryman

[Helpme86]

All I have to say is that is not and age gap at all. If you still want her, just try. You said she flirts, what do you do back?

[DropToZero]

It's not a bad thing that an older girl is interested in you, definitely go for it man....you sound like you and her are getting along fine talking, just need to see her in person and keep your head straight hehe.

 

As for your friend, she's jealous....she may possibly like you too...but that's just based on the fact of what you said, I dont know the whole story. Soo...dont delete her from whatever IM thing you're using, just keep flirting and talking and get a date...see how it goes in person.

[goddess23]

lol o wow....okay im 17 now and my bf is turning 16 soon. basically hes a year younger than me. and i have literally liked two guys in my life and hes one of them. i felt stupid for liking a younger guy but relaly i liked him way to much to let it bother me. and we had an amazing beautiful strong relationship better than any that i have witnessed in high school (one of balance) that lasted 9 months. and we sort of got back together agian but whatever. point is, we made a great couple and i liked him alot and i wnated him more than anyone. but lemme tell u problems: he was super shy cuz he was younger which got annoying i had to make all the decisions. socially it wasnt too difficlut however it can be. and not having the same classes n stuff can be annoying as well. but really a few yrs is nothing. but rite now it sort of is but dont wrory its not that big of a deal

[mysteryman]

Thanks for the advice. I usually flirt back or make a joke depends on what she says. My friend is a little bizarre and can be jealous but she's the hottest girl in my grade and one of my best friends and has a bf so I have no idea. Yah Im still kinda nervous about the age thing but I might aswell try. Thanks again for the advice, I appreciate it.

 

Sincerly

Mysteryman

[Stinkweed]

I see no age gap. I mean, if you're both cool with it, go ahead then. It's a good sign that she's flirting with you now. And ignore your friend... It's just immature jealousy. Just do it man. good luck. Peace.

[smallworld]

My friend is a little bizarre and can be jealous but she's the hottest girl in my grade and one of my best friends and has a bf so I have no idea.

 

Hey Mysteryman, I agree with everyone else. Age is just a number. If there's a connection there, go with it. Just wanted to add, that if your friend is the hottest one in your grade, she's not used to being 2nd best in anyone's eyes, so now that you have a gf, she has in fact become a secondary focus in your life. That's a huge blow to her ego!

 

If you don't want things to get too weird between you, I suggest sitting the friend down and telling her that you appreciate all the help/support she's given you and that you're not tossing her friendship aside just because you have a gf now. Hopefully she'll come around, but if not all's fair in love and war. Have fun!

[misery12]

If you two have feelings for each other, why does it matter?

It seems that you two are pretty close, or at least getting there, so I'd say go for it.