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  1. Well almost any guy would be insecure about a girl spending the night at 2 guys house, gay or not gay. Because it worries guys that the girl will cheat and also he probaly finds it weird. I mean how would you feel if your bf was spening the night at 2 lesbians home? Atleast in my opinion he isnt being too insecure.
  2. Well a lot of parents are and their trying to protect her. It sounds like she's a church girl which would help explain some of this. And honestly man you shouldnt criticize her parents because odds are they'll find out and not want you around their daughter. I really dont know what your asking but if its that the parents will turn her into a runaway or a wild girl by being strict, then no the majority of the time that doesnt happen. And if you want to be with her, it sounds like you need to clean up your act a little and get on her parents good side.
  3. Hey, Well there is a girl that I have been good friends for 3 years give or take a little. And I've for the most part been trying to be more although never actually admitting it. Anyhow a couple weeks ago after a game I was at a restaurant with some friends and so was she. And we talked a little and I left. And then i asked her to a movie (first time ive ever been so forward with her) and she couldnt because she was sick (not a lie, actually sick). Anyhow last weekend I ran into a friend of mine who was with her at the restaurant and told me that they had talked about me and claiming i could be or was or am (im really not sure on it) akward. And well today I asked her about it when the friend was close by and well yah. She got real mad about it and told me that she was just kidding. And she got really mad at my friend. Saying that he's my lab partner (the girl and i are lab partners, hell she asked to be mine) Anyhow I didnt know what to expect at the game. Well about half time I walked by her and she jumped in front of me to which i said hey. Then I sat kind of close to her, and she told someone not to talk to me (she was kidding) and i jokingly replied yah im too akward, and she said maybe we shouldnt be friends or something. Then I started to tell my friend and I turned to tell him and I couldnt see her, and my friend told me she kept turning her head to listen in when I wasnt looking. And then at the dance my friend (the same one who told me and talked about me) told the girl i hadnt danced (i dont dance), and she said something (too loud to make out) and he said that she said she didnt care. And before I left she asked me if i hated her and I told her no that I was going to tell her that when i saw her. And well I just dont know what to do, I mean I feel betrayed honestly. Yah I know it wasnt very bad but its the principle and what happened afterwards. I mean does she even care about me? I mean surely I mean more to her than just a lab partner?.. And i guess I hate that our friendship is hurt and that any chance of us being more is over. Kind of ironic, I had planned on trying to get with her this weekend (her birthday is sunday), guess thats messed up. Its a shame, any advice on what to do? And about the akward thing, my friend mentioned that it was something about me talking. I sometimes somewhat pause, I guess to add a little something to the convo and time to think? In all honesty I dont know what the deal is. Thanks Sorry for it being so long Mysteryman
  4. In situations like that its best to think outside. See if she has aim, icq yahoo or any Instant messenger. And Id bet anything she has a myspace. And see if you can get ahold of her through that. Or you can wait and see if a window of opportunity opens. But the best thing would to try both honestly. (Btw man I've been in your situation several times).
  5. Well to make a long story short, I need advice about asking a girl out. See I hate asking girls out. And a lot of the time the girls just throw themselves at me. But now I'm going to have to do it. Heres the story, a friend of several years. Last week I asked her to a movie and she couldnt come because she was sick. This week has been kind of odd, with her recommending us being lab partners despite the fact that she sat right beside a guy who somewhat begged to be her partner. Comments about wanting to ride in my car. See to me it feels like Im close but Im not. And its a confusing sick feeling. But Im going to have to ask her out, if nothing else just for sanity. And honestly I have several girls interested in me so I dont wana wait around much longer if I cant get her. She logs on to ICQ some but not too often, and I have her number. I would prefer ICQ but calling her would be the better bet. Anyone have any tips? Dialogue? Anything? Sorry for this being so rushed and lame its just im really tired and confused. Thanks Mysteryman For more of the story, see my other post
  6. Well please understand that these aren't my opinions but what I've gathered. Often guys will look at girls, not so much because they want to cheat or anything just because its there. I mean people window shop things all the time even if they have absolutely no intention of ever buying it. And the reason guys want something strange as you put it is. Well guys are ambitous and when something comes easy they lose interest. I mean its kind of like watching a movie over and over, even if you like it, you probaly want something different after so long. And a lot of the times guys want better, or atleast try. And please understand, Im not this way and niether are plenty of guys. Im currently in the middle of getting into a relationship and I'm crazy about her without the slightest of intentions of any other girls. Those are just my theories based upon the subject.
  7. If you over analyze the situation, your going to mess yourself up. When the time comes, you will know. But try not to wait too long to do it because some girls will think of you as more of a friend.
  8. Hey, Well Im doing to jump into this thing, Ive really liked this girl for a long time and we've been friends for a few years. And I've changed my looks and style quite a bit and my love life has insanely improved. Anyhow back to the story, Ive been good friends with her this whole year. And Saturday she logged onto ICQ (Its like AIM) and I asked her to a movie despite the fact she wasnt feeling good. She was at first interested but it kind of died. Later calling me and telling me she didnt feel well enough to go. Well I didn't quite exactly know what to expect today. well in firts block (the only class we have). The teacher was talking about a lab (we have partners and we havent picked them yet, her and i were partners last year) and I figured the girl would choose this boy beside her as her partner. And then I heard my name whispered a couple times and she tells me that we should be partners. To which I reply sure good deal. And then the boy I figured she'd work with start trying to talk her into being his partner and she wouldnt. So now Im a little worried about what Im going to talk to her about? I mean I asked her out the other day. And what if the boy talks her into working with him? And is that a good sign that she wants to work with me?.. Does anyone think I have a shot with her?.. Its just that she is an amazing girl, she's beautiful (pagaent winner) really smart, and a cheerleader who will probaly one day be captain. And I mean I just dont feel Im up to par. Anyhow thanks for any tips, suggestions, opinions, anything. Its a really weird time for me. Thanks Mysteryman Heres the full story about the almost date
  9. Well I don't beieve anyone has told her anything. I mean its always been kind of a rumor that I may have feelings for her but we've been friends for a long time and when a girl is as popular as she is, thats inevitable. So I really dont know, I mean she may have noticed, maybe someone did tell her, I really dont know who though lol. And I had to look up what suss means, that term hasnt exactly caught on in America lol.
  10. Well yesterday I learnt a valuable lesson , never ask out a sick girl. Theres a girl I've wanted to be with a long time. And we're really good friends and all. And today she told me she was sick so I told her that humor is good for your health and asked her if she would like to go see Night at the Museum. And she asked who all would be going and I said I didnt know. She said we need to get a group together. And I told her I could pick her up and she said that'd be cool. And she seemed interested at first but her interest kind of died. She said she didnt know if she would feel up to it or not. So I told her Id call her later and see if she was up to it not. Well two tries and I didnt get an answer. I went ahead and got ready to head out and pick up a couple things when I got a call. It was her and she sounded sick and we talked for a few minutes and she said that she was with her mom picking up some food. (Which will probaly be good for me, because her mom likes me.) And i jokingly menitoned the 9:15 movie and she said she wasnt feeling well enough to which i said I was just kidding (although I was but there was the hidden agenda). And she was asking me about who I was going to be hanging out that with that night and I told her I was just going to run to the store and pick few items up. I asked her about her symptoms and she said she thought it was a sinus infection. And that was that. There was some more but Im kind of drawing a blank lol. And well Im just remarkably confused about it all.. I mean did she want to go? Was she really sick lol (I mean exagerrating her symptoms so she didnt have to go with me? How do I act Monday when I see her? We've been friends for 3 years and good friends at that and I've for the most part kept my feelings to myself. This girl is a really great girl,and will probaly be the captain of the cheerleading squad once she gets older. And I mean Im a pretty good guy and I changed my style big time over the summer and its remarkably improved my status with girls. So I just dont know if Im good enough for her either. its a real mess honestly.. Any tips or advice or anything? Thanks Mysteryman
  11. She quit cheerleading so she wasnt even there lol.
  12. Well I learned a valuable lesson today, never ask out a sick girl. Theres a girl I've wanted to be with a long time. And we're really good friends and all. And today she told me she was sick so I told her that humor is good for your health and asked her if she would like to go see Night at the Museum. And she asked who all would be going and I said I didnt know. She said we need to get a group together. And she seemed interested at first but her interest kind of died. She said she didnt know if she would feel up to it or not. So I told her Id call her later and see if she was up to it not. Well two tries and I didnt get an answer. I went ahead and got ready to head out and pick up a couple things when I got a call. It was her and she sounded sick and we talked for a few minutes and she said that she was with her mom picking up some food. And i jokingly menitoned the 9:15 movie and she said she wasnt feeling well enough to which i said I was just kidding (although I was but there was the hidden agenda). And she was asking me about who I was going to be hanging out with and I told her I was just going to run to the store and pick few items up. I asked her about her symptoms and she said she thought it was a sinus infection. And that was that. And well Im just remarkably confused about it all.. I mean did she want to go? Was she really sick lol? How do I act Monday when I see her? We've been friends for 3 years and good friends at that and I've for the most part kept my feelings to myself. This girl is a really great girl, probaly be the captain of the cheerleading squad once she gets older. And I mean Im a pretty good guy and I changed my style big time over the summer and its remarkably improved my status with girls. So I just dont know if Im good enough for her either. its a real mess honestly.. Any tips or advice or anything? Thanks Mysteryman
  13. Hey this is gona sound a little rushed and there may be a few errors but Im in a real hurry so here i go. At the end of September I was at a football game with some friends we were playing rc, my friends decided to go ask out all the cheerleaders, after many failures they decided to try again and walked up to these 3 rc cheerleaders. I just stood at a short distance away (Im not stupid like that) and my friends asked if they'd cuddle with them and she said what about the guy behind you. She told my friend she thought I was cute and I started talking to her a little and then she informed me she was 18 and didnt date younger guys, which really sucked. The next week my town was playing far away so I went to another game and coincidentally they were playing rc. A friend of mine and I were walking by the cheerleaders and my friend said they were staring me down including her. At almost half time I was standing at the end of the field just talking and I heard my name and it was her and a friend of hers. At half time I talked to her a little and she mentioned how good I looked and all that. I had my friend slip her a piece of paper with my number on it and a note saying "incase you make an exception". And that was the last I saw of her. Well tomorrow we're playing rc in basketball, and I dont know what to do. Should I go? Should I talk to her? What should I say to her? And I was hoping you all might have some ideas? Thanks, and one thing rc is an hour away from my town which presents a small problem but I dont care too much about that honestly, because here in a few weeks I can drive. And also this is probaly the last chance I'll get to see her. Anyhow thanks, Sincerely Mysteryman
  14. Hey, This is gona be kinda short and sloppy because i have to write a paper but here it goes. Ive been friends with this girl for 3 years, and theres been some attraction between us to a degree or atleast thats my opinion. Recently though I've been really wanting to ask her out. And the reason Im writing this is, I have a class with her where we sit parallel (straight at each other) about 20 feet with a few desks in between but can normall see each other. Sometimes we make eye contact and Im not sure how to take it. I dont know if i should kinda stare? If she's even looking at me or not? And I dont want to freak her out. Any ideas? I appreciate it David
  15. It's probaly because she sees you as a friend. And I dont know if you have done this or not, but you could always just ask her out. I know how you feel man, I've been in the same boat many times.
  16. Hey guys, This is the story. We had a football game last week, I went and I usually just walk around and talk to people. Some of my friends tried to hit on some cheerleaders from the other team (we'll call that town rc) well they failed. A little while later 2 of them decided to try again, I was standing behind them waiting for them to make fools of themselves and then move on. They asked them if they would cuddle with them, (it was about 50 degrees) and one who was the prettiest of them said no but what about the guy behind you. Well I kinda talked and then we walked off. My best friend asked her a few questions and said she thought i was cute and was interested in talking. So I did, and it was going well, I was thanking my lucky stars when she said you are 16 right? I immediately said yes and she goes well I dont date younger guys and Im 18. After about a minute of talking some more, my friend and I went on. After a while, it was about 3minutes until the game was over, we walked back over there, and while walking I heard my name and ignored it then I heard it another time or two and looked back and it was her. I asked what her name was and said it was nice exchaning names and kept on moving. And Im pretty sure after we stopped a hundred feet or so she was looking at me?.. And that was the last I saw of her. Well tomorrow, my team is playing far away, and Im gona go to another town about 5 miles away and out of some odd timing, they're playing rc. So I'll probaly get to see her again. And I really dont know if I should talk to her and if I do, what I should say? I dont want to look like a stalker or anything. I had considered giving her a card that has my name number email and Icq number on it. And on the back saying incase you decide to make an exception to your rule. The last of my problems is, the town is almost an hour away and I cant drive for another 3 months (12/30) but I have a really nice car. Anyhow, does anyone have any comments? Thanks it's much appreciated Mysteryman
  17. Never heard of a canadian nazi before lol. I understand what your saying, I live in the south and rascism is very common. But becoming a nazi is something your probaly gona regret. Having a little rascism in you is a far cry from a nazi. These people killed millions of innocent people. I mean I dont know who got you thinking of Nazism but trust me it's a mistake. And I'll be honest, theres not many black people I can stand, but that doesnt mean a person should be a nazi.
  18. Hey I have a question, is dating a younger guy as big of a taboo as some claim? See I met this girl and we seemed to have chemistry then said she wouldnt date me because I was 2 years younger than her. How important is being younger than their bf to girls? Heres the full story if anyone wants to read all of it . And also do girls ever change their mind about dating younger guys?? Thanks Mysteryman
  19. Hey, I broke my leg bad a while back and they didnt have to use pins so she may not have to. And the school paid like 90% where it was a practice no their land. And I had a great time when my leg was broken so its not as bad as it may seem.
  20. Hey, This tale is kind of an odd one. The other night I went to the football game, we were playing a town an hour away we'll call it rc. I usually just walk around with friends and goof off at the games and watch some of the game. Some of them went up to rcs cheerleaders and tried to flirt and got turned down. A little while later my best friend and another friend went up to these 3 rc cheerleaders and asked if they would like to cuddle, I was standing behind my friends because I dont do stuff like that, and they say no but what about the guy behind you. I was kinda caught off guard lol to be honest, so w alked off. Then my best friend said Im gona go talk to her for you and found out she thought I looked good. So I went to talk to her and it was kind of cool, then she said you are 16 right? I said yes, and then she said she doesnt date younger guys and that she was 18. Well a few words later me and my friends were off. I wondered and thought what to do but I had no idea. So with about 2 minutes left in the game I walked back over to rcs side and I heard my name, I ignored it and then I heard it again, and it was her. And I asked what her name was and said it was nice to exchange names and I walked a few paces away from her. And Im almost positive she was looking at me. Next week my team plays a school far away so Im gona go my cousins team, its a neighboring town and oddly enough their playing rcs team. So I'll probaly see her. I guess what Im trying to say is, does anyone have any tips or ideas? Does she sound interested? Does she sound like she is just playing with me? Is 2 years that big of a deal? Anyhow thanks, I appreciate it Mysteryman
  21. I had something kinda similar like that happen to me last night at about the same time lol. Mine didnt end quite as well as yours did. Try movies, music, family, what she wants to do in life, all the cliches. They all work oddly enough. And best of luck man.
  22. Well this is kind of an odd story, Ive never had this happen before. It was homecoming last night and I went to the football game. I dressed fairly nicely, it was jeans, white shirt, white polo and a red and white sweater on top (It was around 40 degrees). I have some stupid friends to put it bluntly. We were walking around the track (the football field has a track around it and a lot of people walk around and goof off), and my friends tried to get with some of the other teams cheerleaders, they promptly blew them off. Then 2 of my friends tried again, I walked with them but got behind them and didnt say anything, (I dont do it, I think it makes you look stupid) they asked them if theyd cuddle with them, and one of them said "what about the guy behind you?" And a little akwardness ensued. We walked off and my friend went over and talked to her, and he said she thought I was attractive and that she liked smart guys. So then me and my friend went over to talk to her (sorry this is so repetitive) we kinda talked and then asked me if I was 16 and I said yes, and she said she didnt date younger guys and that she was 18, and we talked for a second or two longer and then walked off. Then right before it was over, I was walking with my friends I heard my name, I ignored it and I heard it another time or two.. it was her, I asked her what her name was, and we walked a little past her and I saw her looking at me. I guess what Im trying to say is, what should I do?.. I barely know her, but I really would like to be with her, and I dont think she'll date me but she showed interest. And next week my schools team is play a school far away so im gona go to another towns game who is playing the school where shes from, so I will most likely get to see her. Any tips? Advice? Is appreciated. Mysteryman
  23. Its because your doing it so much man. Your basically out of sperm. And its sore from the usage. Chill out man, your young and have plenty of time.
  24. Hey Im sorry for your loss. I know it's hard but you just have to try to remember the good times and hope he's in a better place. Usually it's the first few days thats the worst. So once you get past that you should be over the worst of it. I wish you the best of luck. I wish I could be of more help.
  25. Yah, I sometimes have really odd dreams. But sometimes after analyzing them I notice hidden messages in them. Maybe something triggered it?.. Try to think of any analogies or anything that this could be?... But most of the time their just crazy dreams.
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