Abstaining from sex

[steve81]

We both made appointments for getting steralized. We also made a list of supplies were getting condoms we wanna try the female condom to. We want something that can be used prior. Plan B and were getting the spermacide inserts. 

[boltnrun]

I thought you decided to abstain until after the procedures?

Or is that unrealistic?

And if you're asking her sister for money and to watch your kids frequently she absolutely does get to express an opinion.

[steve81]

Just now, boltnrun said:

I thought you decided to abstain until after the procedures?

Or is that unrealistic?

And if you're asking her sister for money and to watch your kids frequently she absolutely does get to express an opinion.

We are a 100000% abstaining we just want options on hand. Not sure how long from stsrt to finish until im steralized. And yes we borrow money snd use her for bsby sitting. Let me rephrase ww owe her monry. 

[kamurj]

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