We are a 100000% abstaining we just want options on hand. Not sure how long from stsrt to finish until im steralized. And yes we borrow money snd use her for bsby sitting. Let me rephrase ww owe her monry.
We both made appointments for getting steralized. We also made a list of supplies were getting condoms we wanna try the female condom to. We want something that can be used prior. Plan B and were getting the spermacide inserts.
I am following through with it thats why we are abstaining now. We have been talking about all of this. She did alot of complaining to her sister who now feels she has authority.
We were on google all night looking up different methods. We need to prove to everyone now. Her sister is disappointed that this is a issue at our age.
I know we knew what we were doing i mean the baby wasnt planned like hey lets have a baby but i see his side. And yes sex is fully off the table here no question there at all.