Why did only that girl say bye?

[jul-els]

It means you’re spending a lot of energy trying to assign meaning to something that has no meaning. Why, I have no idea. Only you can answer that. 

[MissCanuck]

OP - It's meaningless, other than she was being polite. 

That's it. 

[Abinash1973]

8 hours ago, boltnrun said:

Did any of the boys who attended say "bye"?

Yes few

[Capricorn3]

10 hours ago, Abinash1973 said:

I am not concern about that girl but I want to know about the rest 9 members.

No need to concern yourself about the other nine girls.  They were simply carrying on with their day, chatting to their friends, were distracted and left the class.  Some say bye, others are distracted for a moment.  No big deal. Nothing to be concerned about.  You are really reading way too much into everything.

[boltnrun]

7 hours ago, Abinash1973 said:

Yes few

So why aren't you obsessing over why some of the boys said "bye" and others didn't?

Is it because you don't think boys "decorate themselves"?

[boltnrun]

Also, are you hoping this "girl" likes you and that's why she said "bye"?

[Cherylyn]

19 hours ago, Abinash1973 said:

I am not concern about that girl but I want to know about the rest 9 members.

They don't care and neither should you. 😐

[Cherylyn]

20 hours ago, Abinash1973 said:

Why didn't the other 9 girls act similar, don't they know the norms?

There aren't any norms.

[Cherylyn]

20 hours ago, Abinash1973 said:

Meaning that their response is not spontaneous . They think too much before any response.

That's their prerogative. 

[Cherylyn]

None of this matters.  Don't make an issue out of 'bye' and who said what?  Why didn't others say, 'bye?' etc.  Who cares?  Everyone minds their own business and goes about their day as should you.  It's not a big deal.

They don't care about you in particular and neither does the girl who said, "Bye."  She was only being polite, no more, no less. 

[Abinash1973]

13 hours ago, boltnrun said:

Also, are you hoping this "girl" likes you and that's why she said "bye"?

No

[Abinash1973]

13 hours ago, Cherylyn said:

None of this matters.  Don't make an issue out of 'bye' and who said what?  Why didn't others say, 'bye?' etc.  Who cares?  Everyone minds their own business and goes about their day as should you.  It's not a big deal.

They don't care about you in particular and neither does the girl who said, "Bye."  She was only being polite, no more, no less. 

True

[Abinash1973]

On 8/30/2022 at 10:01 AM, MissCanuck said:

OP - It's meaningless, other than she was being polite. 

That's it. 

True, but why should one to be polite, there isn't any compulsion.

[Abinash1973]

[MissCanuck]

2 hours ago, Abinash1973 said:

True, but why should one to be polite, there isn't any compulsion.

Do you tend to over-analyze and fixate on other random things? 

[Batya33]

6 hours ago, Abinash1973 said:

True, but why should one to be polite, there isn't any compulsion.

Common sense - people move towards pleasure and away from pain. The person who spoke who you are Uber focused on felt like saying bye because it felt good. Question is what benefit do you get from this level of analysis? Are you bored or trying not to focus on something truly important ? 

[gamon]

3 hours ago, MissCanuck said:

Do you tend to over-analyze and fixate on other random things? 

It's a characteristic of those on the Spectrum

[Abinash1973]

Thank you, everybody, for the feedback.

[Jibralta]

On 8/29/2022 at 4:09 PM, Abinash1973 said:

They think too much before any response.

That's probably true. Especially if they're young--young people are much more impacted by social 'norms' than more mature people, and look to others to inform their decisions.

On 8/29/2022 at 4:04 PM, Abinash1973 said:

I find girls actions are not normal.

You are right. It's a skewed distribution. A normal distribution would have 50% on each side of the mean. Also, in a normal distribution, median = mean = mode.