Idk what to do

[bubblepop87]

Its so hard.. I haven't ate in 2 days and i don't have a appetite. I feel betrayed, lied to and used. 4years of my life... just to find out through another female been having the time of her life with my "man". Crap HURTS

 

He tried to block her off my phone so i wouldn't know

He's lying when i ask him questions (far as i feel)

He sends one or two texts a day saying he's sorry wanna marry me and he was in a bad stage in his life because family issues and we weren't together for 2 months plus BUT when we were together you still carried on with her

Its just really messed up how i found out and i go through things with my vagina and I'm sitting here like "Ok when was your conscious gonna keep in if you see my in pain and itching to say hey we need to talk"

I wanna meet up and talk but at the same time i feel its still fresh (2days ago) and whats really the point?

[Hollyj]

Talk about what?

 

He is a liar and cheat! he is using excuses, there is no excuse.

 

Time to value yourself and be done with this guy. he will cheat again. he does not love or respect you.

[ThatwasThen]

You "go through things with your vagina?" O.O

[Hollyj]

You "go through things with your vagina?" O.O

 

Yes. Please expand on this?

[Annia]

Yes. Please expand on this?

 

Maybe she caught a STD due to his cheating ways with this other woman?

[Annia]

And yes, there's nothing to talk about. Now you're free from this cheater.

[figureitout23]

I am also curious.

 

And yes, he is a cheater.

[bmars87]

There's no need to talk this one out.

He is likely going to lie about it and you will end up hurt or he will be honest but the damage is already done. You can't expect the person who hurt you to also be the one to heal you.

[HeartGoesOn]

Its just really messed up how i found out and i go through things with my vagina

 

I'm confused as well.

[bubblepop87]

Yeast infections.. never caught anything else. I'll better explain. He's there with me when I'm in pain going to the doctor and never said anything.

[Wiseman2]

This is not necessarily an STD. Could be due to your general health or hygiene habits. What did your doctor say? Also why would he have to hold your hand at the doctors office for this? What's he supposed to say? Most women handle this privately. So no STD a but a lot of drama, blaming, etc?

Yeast infections.. never caught anything else.He's there with me when I'm in pain going to the doctor and never said anything.

[reyrey22]

I have had this happen to me. My advice is no matter what YOU HAVE TO LOVE YOURSELF MORE. Even if it kills you. Even if its the hardest thing youve ever done. A man that doesnt value you... will not value you if you allow him to treat you in such a disrespectful manner. Love yourself by removing yourself. If a man has to choose between you and another woman PRAY he chooses her.... because he needs to learn first hand what it is and who it is he missed out on. Dont compete and dont compare yourself to her. Because it is EXTREMELY unhealthy. He'll come crawling back like the snake he is because men like that cant handle rejection. And by the time that happens you wont care. When you value yourself the people around you have no choice but to do the same. Its going to be hard, its going to hurt, but trust me when I say that is the best possible choice for you... because loving you is always the best choice for you. Godspeed, you deserve happiness force yourself to get it.

[bubblepop87]

yeast infections can come from bad bacteria so it can be his health i am very clean when it come to my body.

[boltnrun]

Yeast infections can come from your own body chemistry being off. They are not an STD.

[Wiseman2]

Why don't you get accurate information from a doctor?

yeast infections can come from bad bacteria.

[figureitout23]

*jumps in*

 

It's not an STD, but a partner can throw off your PH, especially if they are unsanitary. The vagina can be finicky. None of this matters in the grand scheme of things, but it happens, PH off, bad yeast takes over, yeast infection.

 

*jumps out*