1234567890 Posted March 25, 2018 Share Posted March 25, 2018 My ex and I broke up late last year and since then we have been going back and forth, this even resulting in going round his house and seeing his family again. However I don't know what this means for us or what he wants. We aren't talking right now but he messaged me saying "Do you think I cheated on you when we were together?" to which I said I don't know anymore. He then blocked me and we haven't spoken since but why would he do that? Was he trying just to get in my head because it worked. Link to comment
SweetGirl28 Posted March 25, 2018 Share Posted March 25, 2018 He's really playing on your emotions. Blocking you means you block him back, and never break no contact again. What happened that led to not talking after hanging out again? If he solely blocked you for being unsure if he cheated, that's very childish of him. Link to comment
DanZee Posted March 26, 2018 Share Posted March 26, 2018 SweetGirl's correct. You're never going to heal unless you drop this guy and block him. Every time he contacts you just keeps reopening the wound. You've got to move on. Link to comment
1234567890 Posted March 26, 2018 Author Share Posted March 26, 2018 He is quite immature but is going through a rough time at home so I don’t know if it could be to do with that. I know deep down it’s right to move on but i can’t imagine being without him. We were so close and I don’t want to not have him in my life but we can’t be friends without being anything more. Link to comment
MissCanuck Posted March 26, 2018 Share Posted March 26, 2018 My ex and I broke up late last year and since then we have been going back and forth, this even resulting in going round his house and seeing his family again. However I don't know what this means for us or what he wants. We aren't talking right now but he messaged me saying "Do you think I cheated on you when we were together?" to which I said I don't know anymore. He then blocked me and we haven't spoken since but why would he do that? Was he trying just to get in my head because it worked. What is the context of that comment? I am guessing you have wondered about his fidelity in the past, or perhaps have discussed your concerns with others? Why did you two break up? Link to comment
1234567890 Posted March 26, 2018 Author Share Posted March 26, 2018 I also have this problem one time. Now it is better what did you do to fix it? Link to comment
1234567890 Posted March 26, 2018 Author Share Posted March 26, 2018 What is the context of that comment? I am guessing you have wondered about his fidelity in the past, or perhaps have discussed your concerns with others? Why did you two break up? He broke up with me because he needed to concentrate on things at home and didn’t want to be a relationship. I just need to know what he wants with me so i could maybe try try it again with him or cut him off completely. Link to comment
MissCanuck Posted March 26, 2018 Share Posted March 26, 2018 He broke up with me because he needed to concentrate on things at home and didn’t want to be a relationship. I just need to know what he wants with me so i could maybe try try it again with him or cut him off completely. If he broke up with you, you already have your answer. Did you previously suspect he'd cheated on you? Link to comment
1234567890 Posted March 26, 2018 Author Share Posted March 26, 2018 If he broke up with you, you already have your answer. Did you previously suspect he'd cheated on you? He had lost trust initially when we were dating by cheating. Link to comment
MissCanuck Posted March 26, 2018 Share Posted March 26, 2018 He had lost trust initially when we were dating by cheating. So he has cheated on you, then. Don't bother letting him into your life anymore. He's not worth it. Link to comment
catfeeder Posted March 27, 2018 Share Posted March 27, 2018 Key word for me would be 'ex,' which would tell me exactly what he wants. Link to comment
No1 Posted March 28, 2018 Share Posted March 28, 2018 Why do you want to be with someone who 1. has to think about being with you 2. has cheated on you. You are giving him all the power. You are allowing him to decide what happens, you are allowing him to decide how you feel. Rather than letting him decide, why dont you take charge and say good bye. Link to comment
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