Why and what does it mean?

[Maggie Smith]

So my ex was in an overlapping relationship and he ended things with me to be with her. She ended up not being faithful and they broke up only after a few months of dating. He recently added me back on social media but also added my friends. What’s the point?

[ThatwasThen]

I'd not worry about what the point is and simply block and delete him. He cheated on you and hopefully, your friends are loyal to you and will do the same.

[wgmitch]

He has realized he made a few big mistakes and is trying to get back to a state before his bad judgment. I don't know how anyone can get over someone cheating on them. Do not let him back. You are better than that and you know it.

 

Thinking about this is a waste of your time.

[SweetGirl28]

He's keeping you as an option by seeing what you're up to. Only because he got dumped.

[boltnrun]

He lost his source of sex and companionship, so he's seeing if trusty old you would be willing to provide for his wants. Until the next shiny new thing comes along and then it's Goodbye Maggie once again. He'll ride off into the sunset and you'll be left trying to recover from yet another heartbreak caused by trying again with this guy who already cheated on you and left you once.

 

Don't fall for his transparent tactics to boost his own ego.

[Maggie Smith]

Thank you all. I didn’t follow him back and I don’t plan to. He hasn’t tried to contact me or write me. He just followed me and I don’t understand the point.

[Wiseman2]

Backup plan in case he has a dry spell. Because you unfortunately allow this rather than deleting and blocking him and all his people, he can monitor your weaknesses and play you for some easy sex, when it's convenient for him or boost his ego after being dumped or cheated on. If he had any interest in reconciling he would contact you directly..

THe hasn’t tried to contact me or write me. He just followed me and I don’t understand the point.