a3s4ed5f6g7h Posted February 7, 2018 Share Posted February 7, 2018 I have a huge crush on this girl in my course in university. I liked her all of last year but I wanted to focus on studies last year, so I didn't do anything. We're sort of friends, but I'd say we're just acquaintances. I'm pretty sure she doesn't have a boyfriend. A few weeks ago (during the university holidays), I decided to message her and see if she wanted to hang out (I tried to make it obvious that I liked her, without using the word 'date'). She said she was busy moving that week, which I'm pretty sure she was (we have a few weeks of university first, then we have to move for placements for our course). She hasn't moved out of her parent's house yet, so this would be the first time moving and renting a place. This was the message: 13th January Me: hey (her name) 🙂 how are you Her: hey James! How have your holidays Me: it's been pretty boring for me, just been staying in Auckland how about you, been doing anything over Christmas or New year's? Her: stayed in auckland most of the holidays but I'm going to thailand for the very last week haha Me: haha Thailand sounds fun, hope you have a great time if you're not too busy next week, i was wondering if you wanted to hang out with me we could get lunch or dinner and see a movie together or something 🙂 Her: Thanks! Uh when would you be free? Cause I’m moving this weekend so I’m spending most of the week sorting everything 😞 Me: oh are you moving to Hamilton already I'm not doing much so i have a bit of free time what about Tuesday or Wednesday or something Her: Sorry James I’m definitely busy Tuesday and probably Wednesday Me: aww ok are there any days you are free Her: 😞 sorry james possibly friday but I think I'm busy this whole week 😞 Me: that's understandable. let me know if you are free Friday or any other day 🙂 i would love to to hang out with you some time Her: I’ll message ya! Me: 👍 19th January Her: Hey James sorry for not messaging 😞 been busy all week, sorting out the flat (house) is too much 😞 So prob won’t be able to meet up in the holidays. If you gonna be at hamilton tomorrow I’ll see ya then haha we helping (mutual friend) move in. Otherwise I’ll see ya for formal learning! Me: ah ok that's all good i wont be going down to hamilton until after formal learning, since I don't have furniture to move enjoy your time in hamilton moving things around haha Our course has started again, and I've seen her around university a few times. I said hi and asked how her trip to Thailand went, and how moving to Hamilton was. She didn't really act any different, but our conversation was pretty short (our conversations have always been short, since we're more of just acquaintances and we don't really know each other). She didn't show any sign that she wanted to stop talking to me, nor did she show any sign that she wanted to keep talking to me. I'm really confused, because she didn't really give me any signs I could follow. Should I ask her to 'hang out' again, or be more direct and ask her on a date? Or has she made it obvious that she isn't interested? Any advice would be appreciated Link to comment
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