TDW Posted January 29, 2018 Share Posted January 29, 2018 Recently i saw my husband of 15 years had added whatsapp to his phone and had been talking to an ex co-worker. He no longer worked with the company and neither did she. When i confronted him about it he told me she was home in africa and would be coming back to the US and called him to find out if there were any openings at the place they both worked he said he told her that he didnt work there anymore and wasn't sure if they were hiring. I asked him where was the messages that she sent him he said that he deleted the messages which made me think he was lying about why they were talking. After i confronted him he put a lock on his phone. Fast forward 5 months i figured out his password on his phone i open his whatsapp and he i still talking with this woman there were messages from her wishing him a merry Christmas and happy new year him asking her about what she had been up to etc. Then there was a conversation where she had been to a car show he asked her was she modeling at the show and referenced her sending him a car with some star beer in it i could tell by the conversation i was reading that some of the text had been deleted. I asles him why he was still in contact with this woman he offered me no explanation at all. The other night we were out to dinner his phone rings he picks it up and her name was on his screen he wouldnt answer the phone. And told me he doesn't have to tell me anything becuse he hasnt done anything. So the next morning i gave her a call and asked her why she was calling my husband late last night. And her explanation was she wanted to let him know she was back in the US where we live and he knew she was over in africa and asked her to bring him some star beer back because he has never had it before. The whole situation seems odd to me why would some young single woman be calling my husband to let him know she had beer for him he obviously planned to get together with this woman am i wrong for thinking something is off with this. He is currently acting as if i did something wrong to him it would be a different situation maybe if he wasnt trying to hide things from me. But putting a lock on your phone and deleting conversations with a woman just isnt right especially when you are married Link to comment
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