SeaBisquit Posted January 22, 2018 Share Posted January 22, 2018 I don't know if I'm over reacting but my ex is a emotional abuser and the way he broke up with me seems strange I thought..He 're me out and then later texted me and said I need to find someone that loves me unconditionally that I deserve that. Then he said he doesn't love me and that we are friends and that he cares about me alot and he will always take care of me..I told him i dont want to be his friend and he said don't say mean things I'm a good friend and he will always do whatever he can for me..I'm like why? It's over I don't want you it's no surprise. He kept saying he doesn't understand why I have to be mean..is this just more of the emotional abuse? I always thought when your done your done. Link to comment
glitterfingers Posted January 22, 2018 Share Posted January 22, 2018 Without wanting to empathise with him, abusive people aren't usually inherently/intentionally abusive. Abuse happens when a person is out of their depth emotionally and lacks the proper skills to navigate a tense situation. That doesn't excuse it, but it's a necessary thing to understand when separating yourself from abuse. You should cut ties with this person if they are emotionally volatile. Link to comment
Hollyj Posted January 22, 2018 Share Posted January 22, 2018 He sounds awful. Do yourself a favor and block him. Everywhere! Link to comment
Hollyj Posted January 22, 2018 Share Posted January 22, 2018 "He cheated on me in the past..He blamed his cheating on me saying I was pissed at him when he cheated. I dated to go to a exotic dance club I thought it would be fun for both of us..it was a dance show for couples but he didn't want to go.. He talks about his ex girlfreind alot..I get sick of hearing about it. We have a lot of history togethet that why i stay and try to stick it out." Why did he have to dump you? Why didn't you dumb this creep, long ago?????? I hope you don't go back to him, AGAIN! Get some therapy. You do not like/respect yourself, which is evident by being with this creep. I hope you got yourself tested! Link to comment
MissCanuck Posted January 22, 2018 Share Posted January 22, 2018 Yes, this is an extension of his emotionally abusive tendencies. He wants to maintain power over you, even though he doesn't love you. You need to get and stay far, far away from him. Link to comment
SeaBisquit Posted January 22, 2018 Author Share Posted January 22, 2018 He already showed up at my home at 5 am..He left me a note under the door saying he will always take care of me just like he always has. He is crazy Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted January 22, 2018 Share Posted January 22, 2018 What did he mean by this? Financially?He left me a note under the door saying he will always take care of me just like he always has. Link to comment
SeaBisquit Posted January 22, 2018 Author Share Posted January 22, 2018 I'm not sure what he means by the note. I don't ask him for anything ever Link to comment
SeaBisquit Posted January 22, 2018 Author Share Posted January 22, 2018 Oh he always says with every girlfriend that he has had that he had to support their lazy ass Link to comment
MissCanuck Posted January 22, 2018 Share Posted January 22, 2018 Do not engage with him any further. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted January 22, 2018 Share Posted January 22, 2018 But did he offer financial support, gifts, etc.?. In any event delete and block him from everywhere and if he continues to show up, get a restraining order.I'm not sure what he means by the note. I don't ask him for anything ever Link to comment
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