ScarletRose101 Posted January 16, 2018 Share Posted January 16, 2018 My boyfriend and I are dating for over 3 years now. He recently took me to visit his family who live in another country. At first it was all well, untill he couldn't stop texting on his phone. He is usually on his phone but this time something was different and I couldn't get that annoying feeling out of my system. During the time we were there, we also got the devistating news that his dad has a serious illness. I never stopped being there for him or his family. It came to new years eve, when it was just 5 minutes before 12, he got a phonecall.I went over to him to hug, kiss and wish him a happy new year once it struck 12 but he pushed me away. when I finally got to wish him, I told him I love him twice before he could even say it back to me. I kissed him and he just gave me a funny face and saiid "it's so hot, dont do that now!" The next day was good untill it was time to go to bed. He told to go to bed and that he will come in the next 30 minutes. I woke up to go to the toilet and i heard him on the phone discussing issues as if he was talking to someone that didn't know everything about him. I stood at the door and listened. (I swear I heard a womens voice). I barged in, asked him who he was talking to and said "why are u hiding the fact that you are on a call? we had the whole night free and u choose now to be on a call? it was 1:30am in the morning, why is is that u can never take a call in front of me?" i stated that i heard a womans voice,( this wasn't the first time, i even saw a womans name on his phone that i hadnt seen before and he claims that it is just a group chat) he got so defensive saying that "he brought me to his house and this is how i behave and that i made such a scene and that i cant even trust him, that i'm being selfish and nagging him in his haven of peace, he said he was talking to his male cousin" it went on like that for about 30 minutes. He made me feel as if i was the wrong one yet I have not a single thing to hide, everyone has a past but that doesn't define who i am today and how loving and caring i've always been but given a chance he never lets me forget my past. A few days later he started behaving normally with me untill we got back home. He is now back with his family and he doesnt even want to take my calls. i call to find out about him and his dad but all he says is "we are fine" . I was there from the beginning, supporting him when no one was around. Apparently I made such a scene that he doesnt even want to talk to me, i must not contact him because he remembers how badly i behaved because i embarresed him infront of his sister . i have done nothing but be his support but this is how i am treated. I feel hurt especially when he has done much worse to me and i have not treated him this bad. what should i do??? Link to comment
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