DyanH123 Posted January 9, 2018 Share Posted January 9, 2018 Hi I posted previously about my current boyfriend who still has issues with ex. Despite the issues he is having we have continued our relationship as we are both committed to each other and I know given time things will settle down. Problem is still his ex. She doesn't want me to be around him when he has his kids until I respond to her messages she has sent me via facebook. I have never responded to any messages as I have told him I don't want to get involved and I don't see what good it would do anyway. She has sent me messages about what kind of a person he is (who would form an opinion of someone based on what their ex says anyway) and others about how she has been pee'd off about his behaviour, that he is not doing the right thing by his kids (not true). She claims all she wants is some kind of apology from me which I think is not necessary as to me she is still just trying to control and manipulate him, it is not my place to tell him how to be a father. My opinion is it is up to the two of them to determine how to co parent their children. I was considering sending her a message just saying I don't mean any disrespect by not responding to her messages and that I am not here to become between the kids and their dad and that I just do not wish to be involved in any discussion/issues that should be between them. I am just thinking that one day it is most likely we will meet and I would like us to be able to be civil to each other. I keep my distance at the moment when he is with his kids so they can spend quality time with their dad and not think that I am more important than them, we have the rest of our lives together after all. Even though it is up to him to improve this situation, I cannot decide whether contacting her would be helpful or not? Any thoughts please? Link to comment
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