Nips927 Posted January 7, 2018 Share Posted January 7, 2018 I haven't had any contact with my ex in almost a month. I sent her a text last week not to reach but to let her know so and so has her mail and that I want to be left alone. I blocked her number shortly after and that stemmed from a text she sent me trying to find out if I was talking about her on Facebook which I wasn't. We haven't had any other communication other than that. For whatever reason I unblocked her number 2 days ago, I was never expecting bto hear from her, figuring she got the hint and needs to let me be. Today January 7th is the 5yr anniversary of her dad's untimely passing. Again I was never expecting to hear from her. At about 1am she text me phone to phone. It was basically saying hug the dog for me and that it's already hitting her really hard, and that she's sorry for hurting me and that was it. I didn't respond with anything I just left it. I slept on and came to the conclusion she's just wanting attention. Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted January 7, 2018 Share Posted January 7, 2018 I'm sorry, but I can't understand why this is an issue after telling her, "I want to be left alone?" Link to comment
Ziggy123 Posted January 7, 2018 Share Posted January 7, 2018 She wants you to comfort her. But you're not together and it's going to hurt you. I wouldn't answer. Shes being selfish Link to comment
boltnrun Posted January 7, 2018 Share Posted January 7, 2018 Can't she get her girlfriend to comfort her? Link to comment
ThatwasThen Posted January 7, 2018 Share Posted January 7, 2018 Well, now that you know she's sorry she hurt you, you can reblock her and get on with your life through zero contact. Which means you don't creep her social media, unblock her number and you change your thoughts of her when she pops into your head. Link to comment
Nips927 Posted January 7, 2018 Author Share Posted January 7, 2018 I think her gf is already sick of her , but idk. I just thought it was odd she would even text me or try and contact me if she already knows that her number was blocked and I told her I wanted no contact Link to comment
boltnrun Posted January 7, 2018 Share Posted January 7, 2018 Because she has always been able to get you to do things for her. You were even going to let her move in with you despite her being in a relationship with someone else! Keep her blocked. And don't respond. Link to comment
ThatwasThen Posted January 7, 2018 Share Posted January 7, 2018 I think her gf is already sick of her , but idk. I just thought it was odd she would even text me or try and contact me if she already knows that her number was blocked and I told her I wanted no contact All of that is just you spinning your wheels. Don't let her rent space in your head for free. Link to comment
Hollyj Posted January 7, 2018 Share Posted January 7, 2018 You were going to let her move in with you, when she has a bf??? UGH. Dude, stop being such a doormat! Link to comment
boltnrun Posted January 7, 2018 Share Posted January 7, 2018 You were going to let her move in with you, when she has a bf??? UGH. Dude, stop being such a doormat! A girlfriend. She wanted to explore her attraction to women. Link to comment
Hollyj Posted January 7, 2018 Share Posted January 7, 2018 A girlfriend. She wanted to explore her attraction to women. Oh goodness....... Link to comment
Nips927 Posted January 7, 2018 Author Share Posted January 7, 2018 She is bi she has a gf this was like 2 months ago and yes. Link to comment
Nips927 Posted January 7, 2018 Author Share Posted January 7, 2018 My whole thing is why even txt me or try and get in contact with me. Yeah she gave me back the dog which I think she thought was her on demand access to me whenever she wanted. Which I shut that down blocking from everything. Link to comment
Hollyj Posted January 8, 2018 Share Posted January 8, 2018 no. the question is, why did you unblock? why are you STILL seeking validation? Link to comment
boltnrun Posted January 8, 2018 Share Posted January 8, 2018 Are you hoping she wants to get back together? Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted January 8, 2018 Share Posted January 8, 2018 My whole thing is why even txt me or try and get in contact with me. Yeah she gave me back the dog which I think she thought was her on demand access to me whenever she wanted. Which I shut that down blocking from everything. Because you purposely left a door open, along with your words which obviously never matched your actions, (imo). Why not cut the games, say what you mean, and mean what you say? Link to comment
Nips927 Posted January 8, 2018 Author Share Posted January 8, 2018 Boltnrun I think some part of me wants to. Heartgoes on not sure what you mean. She thinks she's blocked, I never replied to anything that she's sent as far as she knows I never looked at her txt. Also I guess I want her to be miserable and know she's suffering thru the pain like I did after she 1st left Link to comment
Hollyj Posted January 8, 2018 Share Posted January 8, 2018 How is she suffering? Isn't she involved with someone? She just wants to know that you are STILL hanging on. EGO. Prove her wrong. Link to comment
Nips927 Posted January 8, 2018 Author Share Posted January 8, 2018 She's suffering and depressed because she gave back the dog now wishes she didn't, and she knows she'll never see the dog again Link to comment
Hollyj Posted January 8, 2018 Share Posted January 8, 2018 She's suffering and depressed because she gave back the dog now wishes she didn't, and she knows she'll never see the dog again Too bad. Please seek some counseling. You seem to have no boundaries with this woman. She has stomped all over you, and you are still trying to accommodate her. Link to comment
Nips927 Posted January 8, 2018 Author Share Posted January 8, 2018 Well she just tried to reach out to me again, asking when she can come over to see Mishka (dog) I told nope then tried saying its her dog to which I replied was your dog. She gave me a you txt and kept asking what she did wrong to be treated like this. Link to comment
Nips927 Posted January 8, 2018 Author Share Posted January 8, 2018 You say no boundaries, but I just put down the electric fence lol Link to comment
SweetGirl28 Posted January 8, 2018 Share Posted January 8, 2018 Well she just tried to reach out to me again, asking when she can come over to see Mishka (dog) I told nope then tried saying its her dog to which I replied was your dog. She gave me a you txt and kept asking what she did wrong to be treated like this. Why did you even reply? I think you're happy you ticked her off. Link to comment
reinventmyself Posted January 8, 2018 Share Posted January 8, 2018 You say no boundaries, but I just put down the electric fence lol Your choice of words here suggest you enjoy the attention. So, what is your question exactly? Link to comment
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