lunanoir94 Posted December 19, 2017 Share Posted December 19, 2017 I have been with my long term bf for four years and we are having a child together and he still often acts like all I care about is his private parts. Obviously he must know deep down it's ridiculous because I love him to death and we have been through so much. Due to circumstances sex has even been off limits for the last 2 months and we've gone without it before so it's not like I am constantly on him. But there are times if I say something about wanting it he goes off about how I only want him for his _____ and blah blah blah ? I will say I am very sexual I like to please my man and be intimate with him it is my way of showing love, maybe sometimes I can show love other ways but I thought most men love this type of attention he seems to intrepret it negativley sometimes. Even the other day after we DTD I made a joke about "the D was worth it tho" and he's like you mean *I* was worth it. I think he's being serious. I told him before I love his ____ because it's part of him and I love HIM . I would not want to be with anyone else I don't like casual sex but I just think he takes everything like I am secretly just in it for that which is so untrue and silly . I don't know where he gets this idea that he was being used . Also I treat him very well and praise his ego for other things not just sex. At the end of the day obviously we wouldn't have got this far if I was only wanting that from him and I know sometimes I can be a bit much if he's not in the mood but it makes me sad he has these thoughts because I truly love him down to the core :( Link to comment
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