Girl1310 Posted November 16, 2017 Share Posted November 16, 2017 Hello I have a little dilemma and I would really appreciate some of your thoughts and advice you have to offer. I have been in a relationship for 3 years, in the beginning he would cook for me sometimes, he would clean up after himself, he always wanted to do something with me, whether it's a walk in the city/park or shopping and dinner. Now though, he just wants to sit at home and play playstation any chance he gets. And I totally understand that some people enjoy gaming and I never say no or through a fit when he does, I want him to indulge in his hobbies, but not to the extent where that's all he does and expects me to clean up after him and do everything else, we are a team and we are supposed to help each other. I have approached him about it several times, on one occasion I was really angry and it turned into a fight. I know that was my mistake it's not good to attack your partner you need to talk things out, so the last time I spoke to him was just a week ago and I was really calm and asked if we can have a heart to heart and I told him that I would appreciate it if he would also contribute in doing chorse and that I would really like it if we could do things together a little bit more. However he felt attacked and said that we spend all day together already at home and he also wants time to himself to relax. I am tired of having to ask him to do this and do that I am not his mother and I am also tired of him expecting me to do everything for him and make his life sweeter if he can't return the favour and just wants to play all day. I believe that you should always treat someone the way they want to be treated. I have tried talking to him but that didn't help and now I don't want to keep giving to someone who seems to be not interested in investing in the relationship. Do you think that I am wasting my time and energy on someone who just isn't that into me? Or do you think I should have another talk with him and try to sort things out? Thank you so much for all the help in advance!!!! Link to comment
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