He won't fulfill my sexual fantasies, am I right to think about breaking up with him for it?

[ThatwasThen]

Tent sex is a goooood thing.

[DancingFool]

Tent sex is a goooood thing.

 

....omg...camping....dark starry nights by a lake far away from all civilization where you can actually see the stars......who needs a tent anyway........lol......

Of course when it's a bit nippy outside....yeah....nothing like taking those sleeping bags and combining them into one...all for warmth...wink wink......

[Lizeth90]

@abitbroken This was a fantasy of mine looooooong before I met my boyfriend and I even confessed it to someone close to me back when I was a teenager. Definitely not trying to one-up him but I can see how anyone would think so. Also, the place would have to be VERY VERY deserted or just distant enough so that we could see others before they see us. I don't get off on almost being caught, only if I'm watching porn, lol.

[Lizeth90]

My boyfriend made his own post if anyone cares to read it and get his perspective:

[journeynow]

If it is a fantasy, could you fantasize about it during sex, imagine you are anywhere that you find exciting, rather than make it about a performance?

[abitbroken]

I don't think the "deserted enough" place is easy to find. I mean - maybe a truck inside a barn or something --- would you compromise and have sex in your garage in the car?

 

Honestly, if you are willing to walk on this relationship because he won't have sex in public....then i don't know what to tell you.

[thealchemist]

I personally think that if your partner isn't willing to explore your sexual desires that is a selfishness that totally justifies ending the relationship.

 

I mean if he tries a lot of stuff and throws out a veto here or there I wouldn't be too critical. But your stuff sounds really down to earth so I don't even see the issue.

 

It seems more about selfishness than anything else.

 

If you are creative is really isn't that hard to find an isolated spot

[ThatwasThen]

How come in your boyfriend's thread he says now you want to do your outdoor/car sex with someone else but you don't mention that in your thread?

 

Have you been talking to some other guy or does he mean you've just thrown it out there that if he won't do it, you'll find someone else to do it with you?

[Lizeth90]

@thatwasthen I told him that if he won't do it I'll do it with someone else and we'll end up breaking up

[ThatwasThen]

@thatwasthen I told him that if he won't do it I'll do it with someone else and we'll end up breaking up

I think you should end up breaking up anyway. Even if he does do it with you now it's going to be so anti-climatic that you're going to resent the **** out of him anyway.

 

This relationship is done like dinner. Find someone that will rip your pants off.