Thainara Posted November 1, 2017 Share Posted November 1, 2017 Hello everyone, I would like to have opinions, especially from guys... I met this guy online and we exchanged some messages and he asked me out on the same day. We went to a pub near my place and we had a great time. He sounded very sweet and thoughtful. We went out other 3 times in the time frame of 2 weeks and all was good. Good communication and he was sounding serious. The fourth date was in his place and he grilled some meat and we had wine... we go to his living room and make out in the couch (no sex)... he takes me home. All good so far. Then the next day (last Saturday) he invites me again to go to his place. By this time I knew we were going to have sex. He was in a work related event and he told me he would have to stay till late and that I could go to his place next day (Sunday) but he would love to see me on Saturday. Since he was being so nice I said I could wait till he was done with the event. He came to pick me up at 11:30pm. We went to his place, he got some wine for us, put romantic songs on and we stayed in the couch for a couple of hours talking and kissing and hugging... all good. Then we started to make out and we got naked (of course)... and then I realized he was not hard (I'm 54 and he's 51)... alright, I was a little disappointed but understanding and I tried everything to make things work out... nothing! Then we stayed on the couch kissing and hugging and he asked me if I wanted to sleep over or go home. I said, this is your house, it's your call. Then he said he wanted me to sleep over. We went to bed and fell asleep around 3:30 in the morning. At 7ish in the morning he started to kiss me and came over me... no hardness again. I mean NOTHING! Then I was really disappointed and I asked him if I was not turning him on... he said of course you are, you're very hot... these things happen sometimes, I think I drunk a little too much last night. I didn't say anything and he got up from bed and went somewhere in the house. I got back to sleep because I was still very sleepy... around 8:00 I felt his hand in my back, I opened my eyes and he said I should get up because he was going to take me home as he needed to run errands... Whaaaat???? I got up, got dressed and he even didn't offer me a glass of water... we jumped in the car and the drop me off in my place. A few hours later a sent him a message saying that things hadn't worked out well between us last night and today in the morning and worst he had treated me like a waking me up early in the morning saying I needed to go... and that if he had told me before that he would be busy during the day I would have asked him to take me home the night before. And then I ended up saying thank your for the good moments and best of luck. I mean seriously? In our first time together the guy can not get hard? Why he didn't take care of that with a pill? And I really felt awful when he asked me to get up because he had to run errands... so rude and disrespectful! A friend told me that certainly he was embarrassed and didn't want me around because he was afraid of not getting hard again. Even though it was very rude and he told me the night before that he wanted me to sleep over when I asked him. Now I see he still checking out my profile... do you guys think it was an one time thing or he has some problem? Also wasn't he rude asking me to wake up so early, treating me like a ? Link to comment
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