ArtLover51 Posted October 21, 2017 Share Posted October 21, 2017 We have been together since we were 60. Our relationship is amazing when we are together. We ride motorcycles, travel, ride bicycles and basically have the best time ever together. He has consistently said that he might want to get married someday. Over the past 7 years I have had issues to the point of breaking up with him (2 times) over his inability to totally commit to marrying me. We always got back together. I really want to share the years we have left and be married to this man. He suffers from depression and OCD and says it’s just scary to think along those lines. I have had the worst year EVER, my daughter died from a brain aneurysm, I’m trying to deal with my grief, and missing her is unbearable, and then I got extremely sick with bronchitis. I have been feeling extremely vulnerable and alone and 4 weeks ago I told him I wanted to get married or break up. He left and I maintained NC for 4 weeks. However, I caved and I took over some stuff he left at my house. We started talking. I told him I was willing to shelf the marriage thing because I missed him so much and I am still in love with him. He called me last night and asked to have some time to think about it. He is unsure if I really mean it or if I will kick him to the curb in another 4 or 5 years if he doesn’t marry me or move in. Now I’m petrified he is going to say he wants to totally end this relationship. What should I do???? Link to comment
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