Millrun123 Posted August 13, 2017 Share Posted August 13, 2017 Hi all. Looking for some opinions. Heres some background.. Weve been together 3 years and have been living together for 2 years in his house. He has horrible trust issues but we have had a great time together. His mom broke his heart by divorcing his dad and taking everything after 35 years of marriage. And his last gf of 3 years broke up with him at the same time and got married to another guy shortly after. I know his is afraid to trust and doesnt think relationships last. This happen once last spring- he said he didnt know if he loved me so i agree i would get an apartment so he could have space. Well the apts i found he didnt like so he said i should stay and we could figure it out. Well it happened again a year later so i decided the only option was to move out. We have been apart almost 3 months and i will be getting the last of my stuff in a couple weeks. All this time it seemed like he loved me... He just keeps saying he isnt happy w himself and doesnt like how he treats me. To me if hes not happy w himself then he will never be happy even in a relationship. I think this time to himself will help him- i really hope he deals with his problems. Im just looking for opinions what to do? If i love him let him go? Has anybody had similar situations? Link to comment
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