zac1122 Posted August 8, 2017 Share Posted August 8, 2017 Ive been with my girlfriend 1 yr 8 months, She is 23 yrs and I'm 27m. She said to me she has never been happier and feels different with me and she loves me. 2 week later there was a family incident which caused her to go into a depressive state. She was quick to get angry, slept all day , couldn't think clearly. Ì tried to see her and support her but she pushed me away, yet she still played her sport (which she did to help her depression) still seen her best friend. Because she pushed me away I gave her some space thought she needed it and would help her still seeing her occassionaly and texting most days . I didn't want to smother her. So 2 months went by and I asked her . Are we togeather still? She replied I don't want to see it end in a bad way. This may sound selfish, I'm doing this for myself, I need to beat this depression and get my life back and the only way I can do it is by myself. It's a shame it has to end like this and who knows what will happen in the future. She is too complicated messes things up . Her feelings have changed to friends after having time to herself . Ì love this girl and my heart aches I don't know what to do I know I can't cope being friends it doesn't make any sense. What do I do ? I've been giving her space leaving her alone atm as I'm finding it so tough . Do I continue giving space? Is this her depression talking ? Do I contact her after 2 weeks or so? Or do I just try and let her go? Ì don't know what to make of this. We haven't spoken for about 5 days now .i just feel really down and have anxiety about it all it's so much harder because she is a really nice decent person. Link to comment
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