Justin144 Posted May 6, 2017 Author Share Posted May 6, 2017 Cell phone is in her name. I dont pay this. For the insurance... i do plan to cancel it. Here's why i haven't. In the event she did get in a wreck, totalled the car, hurt herself or others. I'd be screwed to the possibility of any compensation from the future sale of the car. Also im not completely heartless and do realize if something did somehow happen to her she would also be screwed. I am going to give her the chance to get her own insurance. Quickly that is, within the month. Its not much luckily. Link to comment
Hollyj Posted May 6, 2017 Share Posted May 6, 2017 I wouldn't cancel the insurance if she's still driving the car.. If she has an accident and totals the car, then he'll be really never get any part of his investment back and may even be held liable if his name is on the insurance as well. Do talk to your insurance about possibly having your name removed from the policy or what options you have to protect yourself from any possible liability if she is somehow negligent. You're right. I wrote this before I knew he had half ownership. Link to comment
Hollyj Posted May 6, 2017 Share Posted May 6, 2017 I think you're going to have a battle on your hands, and will see who she really is. Expensive lesson learned. Link to comment
Justin144 Posted May 6, 2017 Author Share Posted May 6, 2017 I agree. Big lesson learned. Very dificult situation. Yes im upset about the money spent and learned an expenaive lesson. But luckily do pretty well and it will not have much affect on my financial standing. I can handle that side of things, and plan to. But mainly at this point, im still just in shock. More of a psychological thing. Having a hard time understanding what the heck is going through her head. And just really not sure how to feel right now. Crazy mix of emotions, happy i got away from it, sad it wasn't real, happy she ended it and i see the real her, but sad because I really loved her. Also mad she used me, but thankful for the lesson learned (very expensive unfortunately) I just cant wrap my head around it. And probably should stop trying to. Link to comment
Hollyj Posted May 6, 2017 Share Posted May 6, 2017 I agree. Big lesson learned. Very dificult situation. Yes im upset about the money spent and learned an expenaive lesson. But luckily do pretty well and it will not have much affect on my financial standing. I can handle that side of things, and plan to. But mainly at this point, im still just in shock. More of a psychological thing. Having a hard time understanding what the heck is going through her head. And just really not sure how to feel right now. Crazy mix of emotions, happy i got away from it, sad it wasn't real, happy she ended it and i see the real her, but sad because I really loved her. Also mad she used me, but thankful for the lesson learned (very expensive unfortunately) I just cant wrap my head around it. And probably should stop trying to. Can you imagine if you had gotten married. Yikes! Link to comment
boltnrun Posted May 6, 2017 Share Posted May 6, 2017 Some day she's going to be old and not so hot. Maybe she can get the old dude to name her in his will so she won't starve once the bolt-ons have fallen and her butt is saggy. I'm going to speculate that her hotness played a big factor in why you threw so much money at her. Sometimes it's better to go with a Mary Ann rather than a Ginger. Link to comment
Hollyj Posted May 6, 2017 Share Posted May 6, 2017 I would also assume that she is quite talented in bed. Link to comment
Justin144 Posted May 6, 2017 Author Share Posted May 6, 2017 I just wanted to say thank you to those of you that have replied. When i posted this topic i assumed it would probably not get much, if any attention. Every perspective has helped me better understand the situation. Although i do still feel very hurt and know it may take some time to get my mind and heart back in a better place. But thank you guys and gals. As a reply to the previous post... No her attractiveness had very little affect my position on spending money on her. I was in a financial position where I could help her circumstances, and I did because i loved her, and thought that was mutual. It seemed as if we had a bright future, and she's genuinely a joy to be around and had always portrayed herself as a honest, good person. Although unfortunatly that was not the case. I have dated very attractive woman in the past on a number of occasions, and spending any sum of money on them was never a factor, other than food, small birthday/christmas gifts such as clothing, ect. Although i know i should have seen it coming and should have known better, i feel i was manipulated on a whole other level. Reply 2... As far as the bedroom goes. Yes she knew what she was doing. But i feel anyone thats been in at least a couple of relationship more than likely knows their way, at least somewhat, around the bedroom. It wasn't crazy mind blowing 50 shades of grey type stuff. But we enjoyed and looked forward to it. Very satisfying and we had a lot of fun. Link to comment
Hollyj Posted May 6, 2017 Share Posted May 6, 2017 Well, I wish you luck in getting your car back. I would also suggest getting involved with someone on your level in the future : someone who is financially self sufficient. You need a partner, not a child to care for. Link to comment
Mavrik Posted May 6, 2017 Share Posted May 6, 2017 Hi Justin Painful reading my friend and it's sad that you had to go through this. I think she may have been working as a free lance escort. And doing If as and when she wanted to whoever she wanted to escort with. Be it the 60 year old or whoever. They have charm and make people fall for them and cater for their needs, that's what they do. They are used to getting people to Pay for what they want, car, fake boobs, uni fees, Mobile phone, trips to Vegas. You sound like a nice person. Find someone that's worthy of you and wants you for you and not your money All the best Link to comment
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