Amaya Posted April 16, 2017 Share Posted April 16, 2017 Well this is a guy from my tutions who continously flirted with me , from giving compliments to asking my number. At first, I took it sportingly, then due to my attitude and ego problem, and somewhat due to the pressure from my friends that he isn't handsome enough, I started giving him rude replies and our conversation was dead since then. Then my bestie talked to him on fb and he told her that he was not flirting with me, I must have misunderstood him. He also said that I am too proud , egoistic ,mean and full of attitude, Knowing this , I confronted him and asked why he said these things behind my back. He simply accepted his mistake and said he was wrong in doing this.Afterwards, he still gives me glances and flirty looks but I want it to go a step farther. I feel that I am starting to like him .I am so confused. What should I do now? Besides everyone tells me that I terribly misterated him. Link to comment
RebeccaLynn Posted April 16, 2017 Share Posted April 16, 2017 I would ask him out. spend some time with him, found out if you really misjudged him, or if you do really like him. Link to comment
Amaya Posted April 16, 2017 Author Share Posted April 16, 2017 Umm , but how to start a talk like this, besides he said that he finds me egoistic. Link to comment
indea08 Posted April 16, 2017 Share Posted April 16, 2017 Maybe leave him alone until you've resolved your attitude, ego problem, and quit letting your friends influence how you treat other people... Link to comment
journeynow Posted April 16, 2017 Share Posted April 16, 2017 " I confronted him" in this situation = pride, egoism, attitude. You proved his point. Go with indea08's advice. I think long term it will be a better path for you. Link to comment
MissCanuck Posted April 16, 2017 Share Posted April 16, 2017 How old are you, OP? I hope you have learned an important lesson, which is not to treat people so poorly. He apparently did nothing to warrant your rudeness. If you want to make amends, ask him if he would be willing to talk. But the best thing to do is take time alone for make some positive changes and weed out friends who think it's okay to mistreat others. They're not your friends. Link to comment
Amaya Posted April 17, 2017 Author Share Posted April 17, 2017 Thanks for ur advices. Actually I realize that I am being a jerk., but I seriously wanna change for better, I just don't know how to? Link to comment
Amaya Posted April 17, 2017 Author Share Posted April 17, 2017 I am 17. Well I can really use use your advice. Link to comment
Amaya Posted April 17, 2017 Author Share Posted April 17, 2017 Actually while talking to my friend, he terribly denied that he never flirted with me and said that I havemisunderstood him about that. I can't get those words outaa my mind. Besides when my friend asked him to help her in sorting this mess, he talked to me if I was worried or bothered about something. He actually asked if Ihad a problem with hi.. I replied in negative. I told him that I am just not used to being alone. He even said that he will help me if I ever need him. Link to comment
Amaya Posted April 17, 2017 Author Share Posted April 17, 2017 One last question, should I sort out everything n apologize to him on facebook?Coz I don't think that I can face him about this. Link to comment
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