surfdiva Posted April 13, 2017 Share Posted April 13, 2017 I'm asking for a girlfriend (seriously, LOL!). A good friend of mine has a boyfriend...they've been together about a year. He sent her an article about ways for her to pleasure him...it was all in fun and in a teasing way. Something along the lines of "how to give the best "B" ever. My friend opened the sight and noticed it was a swingers, hook up and "free" sex life kind of sight. She's freaking out a little thinking her boyfriend is on a "hook up" sight and looking for "swingers". I told her that he's probably just looking at articles, and not to be paranoid. But thought I'd come here and get opinions? Guys, does this sound strange or fishy to you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abitbroken Posted April 13, 2017 Share Posted April 13, 2017 Are you sure he wasn't just Googling or received a paid ad on Facebook? I would not be concerned where the article came from right off the bat if everything else is going good. She can playfully say "I read the article. But hey SwingersSite is not exactly WebMD, so should i trust the advice" playfil tone of voice. He may be embarrassed and didn't realize what site it came off of, or he might confess and say "well...i was kinda thinking..." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wiseman2 Posted April 13, 2017 Share Posted April 13, 2017 Maybe he was on those sight for erotica. They seem to enjoy playful banter. Are articles on better bjs offensive to her? Certainly he wouldn't link the article to a site he was hiding, no? Does she think he's hinting at swinging? If he googled 'better bjs' that type up site would come up, right? Did she try that? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
surfdiva Posted April 13, 2017 Author Share Posted April 13, 2017 Well, apparently. She saw the article and saw the link and webpage it came from. The "about us" said something like "we're a site for swingers, sex free lifestyle and safe hookups" so of course she got a little weirded out. She asked him if he was into the "swingers" lifestyle and he didn't answer her. Moved on to something else she said and ignored her question. I think that's why she's worried. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
j.man Posted April 13, 2017 Share Posted April 13, 2017 I've clicked all kinds of articles without much regard for the source. Your friend thinks too much. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
surfdiva Posted April 13, 2017 Author Share Posted April 13, 2017 I've clicked all kinds of articles without much regard for the source. Your friend thinks too much. That's kind what I thought. She is focusing on the fact that he didn't answer her when she "point blanked asked him if he was into that", LOL! I told her either chill or to talk to him in person and ask him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JaggerJim Posted April 13, 2017 Share Posted April 13, 2017 Obviously your friend isn't pleasing the boyfriend in the bedroom. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
surfdiva Posted April 13, 2017 Author Share Posted April 13, 2017 Obviously your friend isn't pleasing the boyfriend in the bedroom. LOL! Maybe not. They were sending articles back and forth so maybe he isn't either Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matt3939 Posted April 13, 2017 Share Posted April 13, 2017 Sometimes I'm looking up how to make a tinfoil hat and things to do with goats come up. So I'd say it's innocent. BTW just tell her to hang her feet from a ceiling fan and give the poor lad a helicopter. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
surfdiva Posted April 13, 2017 Author Share Posted April 13, 2017 Sometimes I'm looking up how to make a tinfoil hat and things to do with goats come up. So I'd say it's innocent. BTW just tell her to hang her feet from a ceiling fan and give the poor lad a helicopter. How to make a tinfoil hat? LOL! And I think I'll have to look up helicopter, sounds interesting? I know how to do a fancy footwork "helicopter" on a surfboard. Never tried it on a man, LOL! ***aaaannnddd, I just looked it up. I'll never be able to do that or unsee that, LOL! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
surfdiva Posted April 17, 2017 Author Share Posted April 17, 2017 So a bit of an update. Turns out he WAS on a swingers site and admitted that he's very interested in the "lifestyle" and wants her to be open to it. So, there ya go. Thought I'd post an update. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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