Alek0202 Posted March 24, 2017 Share Posted March 24, 2017 So me and this girl are in a relationship for about a year now, we were doing great until we "broke up". We're still together just not officially and we plan to make it soon. But, and there's a big but, when we were together there was this guy that constantly tried to comunicate with her but she ignored him. She said she's been ignoring him for about 3 years, on and off. She "never texts him or calls him back". Once we got together after the breakup i found out that she's talking to him, but not the type of talking that comes to mind. "I know his intentions but i see him as a friend" -she said. I asked her, if you've been ignoring him for so long why in the world are you talking to him, she answered "He was really annoying then, but now he's polite and doesnt pressure me to talk, plus he rarely calls"- she added "it would be stupid to tell him not to call me out of the blue". This got me very mad as you would imagine, mostly because she's been straigt up coldly ignoring him for 3 years and now this, but i just kept my cool and waited it out. Few weeks passed and he sent her an empty text message at 2 am. I said there is no way in hell that's an accident don't lie to yourself, she agreed. After that he called her a few days later at 1am to "check up if she's okay". Now what i need from you is the following advice, or help in deciding, if she doesn't stop answering him when i ask her to, and she keeps texting/talking to him at 2 am in the morning, should I breakup for good? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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