Flirting...

[Sarahjane6656]

I'm chatting to an older man on social media. He comments and likes my stuff (including pictures of me) a lot, however he also likes the pictures of other attractive females, but doesn't interact with them like he does with me. He is about 20 years older and I am 28. I'm wondering if anyone has any advice on how I can flirt with him to subtly show my interest as I would like him to make the first move? He left a comment saying that a pic of me made him feel very old and I joked 'that's because I'm just a young thing' as a joke but it was also supposed to come across as flirty but I'm not sure if it did? I will also sometimes tease him for being on social media for so long and he said that I am giving him cheek - not sure if that is flirty?! I've also left a couple of wink faces in thr past, but his flirting has never really been obvious to me? Not sure if mine is obvious to him?

[angrythoughts]

Is he married? Or seeing someone already?

 

You could just up front message him and start a conversation.

[Sarahjane6656]

No he isn't seeing anyone. I was more curious about what people thought about the signals...

[Dahl]

Him: I dig pretty girls twenty plus years my junior.

 

What sort of reaction / relationship are you hoping for?

[Dahl]

* he also likes the pictures of other attractive females, but doesn't interact with them like he does with me.

 

Follow up question: could you please elaborate on this?

 

Cheers.

[Wiseman2]

Sounds like a lot of tiptoeing around. Social media is for friends, not dating.

 

Keep in mind he's not making any "moves" at this point so that's a giant clue that he's not that interested.

how I can flirt with him to subtly show my interest as I would like him to make the first move? He left a comment saying that a pic of me made him feel very old and I joked 'that's because I'm just a young thing' as a joke but it was also supposed to come across as flirty but I'm not sure if it did?

[Sarahjane6656]

He doesn't send them comments...

He will interact with something I say daily (if I have a daily post).

I know, I read up and basically everyone said if he isn't making a move then he isn't interested but I'm not sure if he just isn't sure how to ask me because it is online? I also wanted advice on subtle flirting?

[sara-pezzini]

Or he does send them comments but they have their settings to private.....don't take social media as a sign for anything.

Talk to him in real life, then you can do some subtle flirting and see how he reacts, how his body language is and stuff like that

[Dahl]

What is it you fancy about this chap? These elements may provide a good place to start subtly flirting by casually and sincerely remarking on these complimentary characteristics.

 

'I look forward to texting with you - you have a fantastic wit'

 

'You are my current go-to source for interesting comments on 'X (whatever applies, politics, weather, urban trends).'

 

and so forth.

[Wiseman2]

He doesn't sound shy if he's flirting with random women online.

 

Have you read the book 141690977X"]He's Just That Into You[/url]

 

It may help you identify interested guys from everyday flirting, time wasters, etc.

everyone said if he isn't making a move then he isn't interested but I'm not sure if he just isn't sure how to ask me because it is online? I also wanted advice on subtle flirting?

[sara-pezzini]

Do you even know him in real life? If not then why bother?

[kamurj]

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