Keyman Posted February 7, 2017 Share Posted February 7, 2017 I have previously posted a thread here: Here’s a recap: I fell for my housemate, hard. Knew as I was falling that it was never going to be. I told her, she was kinda cold about it. I spoke to her again the following week, and got an equally cold response. I shrunk away to my room for most of January, suffering greatly, trying to stop the feelings, but was difficult as her room is across the hall and walls are thin. I didn’t intend for it to happen, but it did. She’s actually a perfect fit for me in so many ways, but she just isn’t interested. She’s ‘dead inside’ as she put it. I think she loves someone else, long distance, they skype from time to time and call etc. She keeps to herself and doesn’t talk about it. So, I just had to last another 6 weeks. I also keep to myself, don’t really speak to her etc. She does know what I’m going through. My other female housemate has been helping me, telling me she might still be. I have been determined to leave, but this other housemate convinces me to stay, ‘I won’t get her if I run away’. Well today, it finally came to a head with the girl and she is definitely not interested. So I am leaving this coming weekend. But that is still five more nights to go. So, I’m looking for some positive encouragement to keep going through these last days before I can rid myself of this hell. Please any encouragement would be great… Link to comment
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