prettywoman220 Posted January 13, 2017 Share Posted January 13, 2017 Okay so long story short this guy I was talking to (let's just call him jimmy lol) my husband think that "jimmy" likes me and wants to do things to me or something but to me I don't think so or maybe I'm just blinded but my husband is so bothered that I talk to this guy and want me to stop talking to him, should I stop talking to this guy because my husband asked me to or just keep talking since I didn't even do anything? Link to comment
gebaird Posted January 13, 2017 Share Posted January 13, 2017 If your marriage is important to you, I think the most respectful thing to do would be to listen to your husband and stop talking to Jimmy. Link to comment
ParisPaulette Posted January 13, 2017 Share Posted January 13, 2017 Talking how? Talking as in you walk past Jimmy on your way to pick up your husband and say, "Hi Jimmy, how's it going?" And Jimmy says, "Fine, you?" then nods briefly and goes about his work. Or talking as in Jimmy calls you late at night on some pretext and you two jabber away like high school students until 2:00 a.m.? Put another way, imagine the most attractive female coworker your husband has or even put someone in there that you know is hot, and imagine your husband talking to her exactly like Jimmy talks to you. Would you be okay with that? There's your answer. Link to comment
prettywoman220 Posted January 13, 2017 Author Share Posted January 13, 2017 No just talking on the phone like just texting. Never hung out or anything like that. Just friendly talk Link to comment
thornz Posted January 13, 2017 Share Posted January 13, 2017 No just talking on the phone like just texting. Never hung out or anything like that. Just friendly talk Why do you even have your husband's co-workers phone number? Yes I think your husband has a right to be annoyed, it looks very disrespectful to be texting his co-worker and I imagine this guy thinks he has a chance with you. I'm all for living your life and not getting jealous or possessive but I think this crosses the line. Stop texting him, delete his number and apologise to your husband. If you're bored find a hobby to make friends. I think affairs can easily start from this kind of possibly innocent (at least on your part) interaction. Even if this guy was gay, I just find it odd that you are texting his co-worker and have his number. Link to comment
prettywoman220 Posted January 13, 2017 Author Share Posted January 13, 2017 It's because my husband and his coworker are friends and I was his friends too until my husband think that his coworker likes me. Thank you for the advice I will do that Link to comment
Capricorn3 Posted January 13, 2017 Share Posted January 13, 2017 No just talking on the phone like just texting. Would you like it if your husband did this with another woman "friend" ? I think your husband is right. I think it shows disrespect to your husband and your relationship (imo). Link to comment
prettywoman220 Posted January 13, 2017 Author Share Posted January 13, 2017 I know now, thanks! My husband and I are okay now. Link to comment
Lester Posted January 13, 2017 Share Posted January 13, 2017 "...(let's just call him jimmy lol)" - To remain anonymous? If that's your picture, be warned, many people come to ena. It's a very small world! Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted January 13, 2017 Share Posted January 13, 2017 Sounds like your husband gets jealous easily.my husband think that "jimmy" likes me and wants to do things to me or something but to me Link to comment
roguepuppet Posted January 15, 2017 Share Posted January 15, 2017 I think you two should just get through this and you should call him, is he at work? Surprise him with a phone call saying hello! happy to help Link to comment
Unreasonable Posted January 16, 2017 Share Posted January 16, 2017 You're talking about texting and possibly calling this guy, right? I was in the exact same situation as your husband a couple years ago. YES, it is bad, and eventually went a lot farther than innocent banter. Most friendships, even with women, end up talking about relationships and other intimate stuff you should NOT be telling another man. You gotta realize its not like you developing a relationship with YOUR coworker, that you can take responsibility for and can quit or whatever if it goes too far. This is a man your husband can't get away from without quitting himself. You're "crapping in his bed" so to speak. I'm sure your husband knows this guy well enough to know his intentions. Link to comment
prettywoman220 Posted January 17, 2017 Author Share Posted January 17, 2017 I don't call him just text Link to comment
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