yelrac1987 Posted March 21, 2005 Share Posted March 21, 2005 Okay, first of all i'm glad that I found out about this site because I can't talk directly to people about some things. Well, I have never been in a sexual situation with a girl yet, but I am worried that when she finds that I am uncircumcised she will be grossed out or something. Hopefully I am just worrying too much, because I don't think it is that uncommon for guys too be uncircumsised. If any girls with their opinions could let me know whether I should keep worrying or not that would be great. Also, if you feel strongly on the negative side of this please don't respond; it will not make me feel any better. Link to comment
Day_Walker Posted March 21, 2005 Share Posted March 21, 2005 Well being uncircumsized I wouldnt say its weird or strange but you are in the minority. Its not a big deal, and its not something that you should be self conscious about. I would work on you being okay with being uncircumsized then it shouldnt bother you. Link to comment
San123 Posted March 21, 2005 Share Posted March 21, 2005 Ive never been with an uncircumsized guy. (Thats not saying that it's uncommon though, I've only been with 2 guys). But I don't see a guy being uncircumsized as gross or weird. It might take some getting used to, but thats all. Don't worry about it too much. Link to comment
JynX Posted March 21, 2005 Share Posted March 21, 2005 There's absolutely nothing wrong with being inexperience in the sexual area. So dont worry too much over this, everyone was inexperienced at one point or another, right? And also, if a girl is grossed out by that, then I'm sorry, but thats being immature. There's nothing wrong with it. Dont worry about this. When my boyfriend and I started dating he wasnt all too experience either nor was I...but we learned off each other. He was 16 at the time..so like I said, dont stress! JyNx Link to comment
mermayd Posted March 21, 2005 Share Posted March 21, 2005 I have never encountered an uncircumsized penis. But if I do, I wouldnt be bothered by it in the least. As long as it is kept clean. From my friends, I have heard that uncicumsized actually feels better and is more fun Link to comment
arwen Posted March 22, 2005 Share Posted March 22, 2005 I have never seen a circumsized one. It's really uncommon here. My exes were all very clean types. I really wouldn't worry! Ilse. Link to comment
RayKay Posted March 22, 2005 Share Posted March 22, 2005 I have never seen a circumsized one. It's really uncommon here. My exes were all very clean types. I really wouldn't worry! Ilse. Yeah, Europe is generally the reverse of North America in that respect. Though less people are circumcising newborns here now as time goes on so I expect in a few years the numbers will change more. Of course, there are still many who want their boys to "look like daddy". To the original poster, I would not worry about it. I have no experience with uncircumcised ones (though have seen them and my siblings are uncut too) - as long as it is clean, and does its job I am sure all will be just fine! Besides, I have heard too that uncircumcised can be more pleasurable for both. Link to comment
Michelle03 Posted March 23, 2005 Share Posted March 23, 2005 I have been with guys who are and are not circumsized. I really think it makes no differnce what so ever to me, so dont worry about it. I have never heard of any girls that i know of sayin that it was gross so i wouldnt worry about it at all!! Link to comment
Kitz Posted March 23, 2005 Share Posted March 23, 2005 One of my friends has said "Sorry, but its friggin' ugly anyway -- circumsized or not!" Lol. Well, to tell you the truth I dont know the difference in looks -- but its not like your girlfriend is going to dump you because you're uncircumsized, is it? Seriously.. guys are so obsessed over their ... ahems (enotalone wont let me say it for some reason o0), wether they're big enough or thick enough or circumsized or not.. and girls who aren't sluhts really dont care. The only reason we'll tease friend's ex-bfs about being small is coz they get so embarrassed about it. Link to comment
corvidae Posted March 23, 2005 Share Posted March 23, 2005 In the UK there is no practice of circumcision (unless you're Jewish obviously) and people seem able to reproduce. Link to comment
Caldus Posted March 23, 2005 Share Posted March 23, 2005 I know you only want girls to reply here, but I would like to say something if you don't mind... You can either be self-conscious about it or not. The fact still remains that you're uncircumcised. You can either accept it or not accept it. I seriously don't think it's something to worry about. I'm not just saying that to make you feel better either. Link to comment
Cartecay Posted April 10, 2005 Share Posted April 10, 2005 You have nothing to worry about. My late husband was uncircumcised and was the sexiest, best looking and most virile man I've ever known. Actually, it was a bit of a novelty and we had a few "inside" jokes that we shared which increased our bond. Link to comment
Charles II Posted February 23, 2006 Share Posted February 23, 2006 I have never encountered an uncircumsized penis. But if I do, I wouldnt be bothered by it in the least... I have "heard"... Oh great. She knows that she wouldn't be bothered by something she admits having never encountered, because she's heard... Bzzzt! Thanks for playing. Carol will have a consolation prize for you at the door. Link to comment
njguy20 Posted February 24, 2006 Share Posted February 24, 2006 Just to reassure you again, I am not circumsized, im 21, have had 2 partners in my life sexually and have never had a problem. Honestly, if YOU dont make it an issue with the girl, she most definitely wont. She will probably just be as insecure as you. So confidence in intimacy is very important. Listen to her, respond, and be confident yourself( dont ask questions, "is this ok" "does that hurt" or make demands. ) Just do what feels natural and pay attention to how she reacts, then change your rythm or touch until she responds positively. Working slowly is always your best bet at first. Then in subsequent sexual encounters, you can be more aggressive if it turns you BOTH on. Dont worry about it. Really, just be yourself and forget about the cliches. If she does say something about it then just say, "yea, im not circumsized and there really isnt anything wrong with it. I am a clean person as you can see and i really like what I see(meaning her body)." Confidence. I am just like you and never had a problem. Good luck! Link to comment
miserableme Posted February 24, 2006 Share Posted February 24, 2006 My most recent boyfriend was not circumsized and it didn't bother me at all but in Australia only 10% of males are. Personally, I wouldn't want to put my child through that and it seems to be quite unnatural to me. Don't worry about it. It's easy to have hangups about your body, but if it's the right girl for you then she won't care. The other thing is, most girls are going to be more self conscious about themselves than you will be. Lots of us are worried about body fat, breast size, cellulite etc. It's just a natural part of learning about each other. Link to comment
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