jmann45 Posted June 27, 2016 Share Posted June 27, 2016 So im in my 20's, theres this new girl i met online. Shes around my age. We went on 1 date and we ended up clicking, laughing ect.. i purposely never make any moves on the first date as far as kissing goes, because i think it shows the girl that i respect her bounderies and am not in a hurry to do anything. But i do "cuddle" with them one way or another on the first date to break the ice. Usually on the second date i take them out to dinner and kiss them at the end of the date.. thats just my way of going about things. It seems like better timing and more comfortable to do it that way.. Well, this new girl i met, we have gone on 1 date and we just cuddled the whole time, and she was expecting a kiss at the end of the date but me being me, i didnt go for it. She and i planned out a day to go on a 3 hour road trip to the ocean and just hang out there. I want this trip to be fun and intimate yet i have not kissed her, this will be our 2nd "date". i dont think any time will be proper to kiss her throughout this date except until the end of the date when im dropping her back off. Because in my head, the 3 hour drive is going to eventually put her to sleep .. I wanted to at least get intimate with her BEFOre the trip. but i dont know how. I will be picking her up. she will get in my car. and thats when the 3 hour trip starts. Would it be okay for me to just go in for it when i pick her up? I know i might be over thinking this but i just have had bad experiences with being friendzoned and deff want to break the ice before or during this trip. When will be a good time??? how should i do it and what should i say? This will be the first time i kissed a girl mid-date. Please advise me and dont tell me im over thinking this..thanks! Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted June 27, 2016 Share Posted June 27, 2016 This sounds like a great time to go for it. Holding hands/arm around her whatever. to the ocean and just hang out there Link to comment
boltnrun Posted June 27, 2016 Share Posted June 27, 2016 While you're enjoying your first view of the ocean out of the car, put your arm around her, mention how great the view is, then kiss her. Super romantic. Link to comment
jmann45 Posted June 27, 2016 Author Share Posted June 27, 2016 Great ideas!! anything else? Link to comment
shellyf62 Posted June 28, 2016 Share Posted June 28, 2016 I wouldnt kiss her the minute she got in the car, that would just be sooooo weird, and make the drive very awkward. Do exactly what boltnrun said!!! Link to comment
Maximus007 Posted June 28, 2016 Share Posted June 28, 2016 I agree with all of the above. Dont be stilted. Just have good eye contact and let flow (like the ocean) when the time is right. Link to comment
jmann45 Posted June 28, 2016 Author Share Posted June 28, 2016 Thank you for all of this. this is great advice. Link to comment
jmann45 Posted July 1, 2016 Author Share Posted July 1, 2016 New thread posted as an update.. Link to comment
ayeh422 Posted July 6, 2016 Share Posted July 6, 2016 just proactively holding her hand can move things in the direction where u would know if it's ok to just kiss her. as others said, the ocean walk would be a great time to do that Link to comment
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