Ex won't stop messaging me

[anon3456]

So quick back story g/f of 5 years broke up with me about 2 months ago. Here's the break up thread We lived together for about 1 month after while I sorted out a new place to live. Side note that is still not completely sorted as I don't have a set place to live but I'm out of the shared house. I determined she had met someone else. But we still have bills in common so I could not make it a complete no contact break i.e. block her number.

 

She still contacts me every couple days. I very politely asked her to stop saying I needed time to deal with this. But she keeps doing it and it's always some random thing to try and lure me into responding. Which I don't. But it still eats at me for the rest of the day.

[Wiseman2]

Get that squared away. Get your or her name off them. Severe any ties and loose ends.Then she would have no excuse to contact you. And you would have no excuse not to block her.

But we still have bills in common

[ThatwasThen]

I'll add to that above with: After you tell her to contact a mutual friend that would agree to field her calls, tell her that she can contact him/her about the unfinished bills and they will relay a message to you and have that friend ignore EVERYTHING from her that does not have something to do with what is still not settled.

Then, once you get your stuff together and get whatever it is settled, both of you block her.

[HeartGoesOn]

Set up a temporary e-mail account, and tell her that will be her only means of contacting you. Follow up by blocking your number, although I'm getting a vibe that you're not ready for that. Of course, I could be off base...

[melancholy123]

Agree with Heartgoeson. Temp email addy she can use, and then BLOCK HER! Change your number, do what it takes to prevent her from contacting you other than by that temp. email addy.