Not sure to contiune or rebuild?

[Lazowns]

So I need some perspective on things. My gf of three years and I broke up In January. Fast forward to now we are trying to work things out. I dated a coworker for about a month in July.. My gf did something similar but with a married man going through a divorce "He was about to sign the final contract". I slept with the girl, she only kissed the guy. I had unprotected sex with the girl one time. My gf values sex, and it seriously took me 1.5 years to be intimate on that level with her. I mean we can forget it and move on. We were separated, so it shouldn't matter right? But it bothers me so much that she dated him for two months. Knew he was married with a kid even. Said she saw so many red flags. But he ended it with her because I'm assuming he wasn't patient and expected more. Im trying to rationalize that we weren't together, and get over it. But it bugs me that he was married.. it could of been any other guy but a technically married one.....what do you guys think?

[mhowe]

She kissed a married man...in the process of divorcing.

 

You slept with someone else.

 

Neither of you gets to judge what the other did. If you feel the need to judge, walk away.

[SooSad33]

You were both apart at the time and made those choices. ( Not sure if they were good ones...), but it's done now.

Can you accept? If not.. maybe things aren't going to work out again between you's.